tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8863605890824310042024-02-08T20:03:30.351+08:00GitzJoey's BlogGitzJoey's BlogGitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-63121670634410178482011-08-24T01:56:00.001+08:002012-07-05T15:51:54.508+08:00Forgetting Your Ex's<div style="text-align: justify;">
Relationship are integral part of our life, most of the people at least experiencing it, and most of them also experiencing a high tide in relationship, and often ended with breakup. After that usually we will facing a phase when we need to put the past and move on by trying to put an end our past comfort that we used to have it, and starting to back in reality of single life. Often, we're having trouble on how we able to move on, or don't have a clue how to start.</div>
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I've my own experience with this kind of matters, I'm not saying that mine is good, but at least can give you a different perspective when dealing with this matters. Some people find it weird but at least I can try to explained with reasons, to make it more make sense. Than you can decide. </div>
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Many of my friends told me or shared their experiences to me, that, the easiest way to forgetting are by having a lot of activities in your life, because at that time your mind are not idling. By doing other thing time seem pass away so fast, but you there are time that your body or mind suddenly asking for rest, and some people will starting to thinking about their ex's again. I think the most popular way is by keeping busy with activities or else find a new boyfriend/girlfriend <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=15.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/15.gif" /></a>. To bad, sometimes we're afraid to start over that soon. This can be the lowest point of your life, where you don't know what's good for you, and seem being alone is the best way.</div>
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I remember when one of my friend, almost every weekend or at least once in a week. We just take like 30-45 min dinner and after that we can just sit and talk all nite till morning, just to discuss about how to move on after a break up, I think she understand the point that I'm trying to convey, but sometimes it's easier to talk than to do it. And end up like running in circle and we meet again to discuss the same topic all over again <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=23.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/23.gif" /></a>. There's a tendencies even we're know that break up is the best way/good thing, we're still missing the good times when we spent together with our partner, and tend to forget about the reality of how bad he/she was. This attitude only make us drown in the ocean of dream, unrealistic dream to re-light the past, which is impossible, even if somehow you able to manage to start again the relationship with the same partner, its doesn't mean that you can get all the good time that you have in the past. I've experiencing that, trying to re-unite and re-light the old memories, but turn out become worse. </div>
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Most of the advice that I get to forgetting your ex's are by forgetting her. This idea are a bit mind-boggling for me, because as far as I know, our brain capacity are very vast, we even able to remember our childhood clearly, how we able to forget something that just happen recently just like nothing ever happen? Even when we're trying to overload our mind/brain with new activities, still not make our memory will disappear that easily. Unless somehow you brain malfunction or knocked and having an amnesia, even amnesia still able to recover and recall their memories again<a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=22.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/22.gif" /></a>. I don't see there's any simple way to forgetting your ex's here, there's why a lot of my friends having difficulties even thou sometimes they saying that they already overcome this. </div>
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I remember a teaching about how to overcome your fear, when you're in the situation where you need to take a decision but you're too afraid to take it, might because you don't know the result or because you're already to comfy with the current situation, and you'll end up just standing there without any progress. The only way to overcome are to start taking step and face it. I remember when I used to force myself to walk down the stairs and passing a dark living room just to go to toilet every night. Yes the sensation are unbearable, not to mention the noise comes up from night animal. But after you pass though, suddenly just nothing, empty. Since then I like to challenge myself, experiencing new adventures, I'm not saying all will end up with success or happy ending. A lot of them also ended with fail, super fail, even fail and embarrassment <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=109.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/109.gif" /></a>, but is it something that we need to "care" of ? meaning, is it embarrassment something that we need to make it big deal? a deal breaker so you better avoid it? Not for me.</div>
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Same thing for this matter, if you keep thinking and trying to avoid remembering her/him. It only end up with stress and burden for you, because you forcing you brain to having amnesia <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=102.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/102.gif" /></a>, which is ridiculous for me to think like that. So since avoiding is not an option, then how? find the opposite way of avoiding. Why don't we try to just face it?. Facing our own fear is the best way to overcome our own fear. Since you also can't avoid it why don't we try to just face it <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=3.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/3.gif" /></a>. Its the most logical way to overcome it since that is the only choice left. But how do we face it?. Its not easy to facing their own fear, sometimes for this case (relationship case), its not only to facing our own fear, but also fear from our friends/close friends/families/etc. Because they might thinking that you aren't able to overcome your past, or dwelling in never ending sadness. So right attitude toward facing our own fear also needed.</div>
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What kind of attitude that we need to use in this case? what is the best?. I'm sure there's no so called "one fits all" solutions for this, but the easiest and the most common sense is based on the quote that we must enjoy whatever we do now. Because if we enjoy it, you'll never notice how fast time pass. There's a possibilities that you might remember a good things/good times with your ex, its should be easy to be handle but what if you remember the bad things also? well, just think how silly you are when you do mistake and laughing at it as it is a joke of your life<a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=21.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/21.gif" /></a>. The more you can embrace the fact that you have memories, you do mistakes or good deeds in your relationship, its helps you to understand life as a whole, its makes you more mature in facing the future. That you already live your life, it is also a pretty good experiences to understand that there's no so called perfect life in this world, it could be a valuable experiences in you life also. I'm sure you have some memories with your ex's having dinner in some romantic place, do we need to avoid it to the rest of you life? why don't we just enjoy it? re-enact what happen that time, how romantic both of you together, or the fight after that romantic dinner. Its like you watching your own movie <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=16.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/16.gif" /></a>. It's also a good time to really judged ourselves whether you are right or wrong more clearly (since no more emotion involved this time). Some people might think that you can't move on from your past, because you keep lingering with your memories. Well, nobody can ensure that you're moved on except your self. This is the part that makes people think differently after all that you done.</div>
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This is the part that we need to do it after you have all your excitement remembering your ex's. Its a part to go back to reality. A part when we must understand that all of that excitement was just a past, something that cannot be reached again since we life in present and moving to the future. This is a part that we need to understand that even if you put the same actor (eg: you back with your ex's) the stories will still be different. Because people changes every seconds. When you realize that, I believe that you can escape from the memories. Basically it's all under your brain control, and how you can control your brain is by stuffing all the information/fact needed to justify your action, and you can slowly moved on. It's not an easy task but the key is in "your thought". Who understand best on how to control your thought are yourself.<br />
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I hope my writing/experience can be useful for other, feel free to comment below.GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-54093858843800846642011-06-05T00:20:00.000+08:002011-06-05T00:20:56.906+08:00Friends - Part 1<div style="text-align: justify;">They are maybe the most influence-able people after your parent when you starting to grow up. The most powerful in shaping your decision, attitude, even your believe. There are so many different kind of friends in this world, some trusted, some wholehearted, some other tricky, some other only "friends with benefit", so many kinds and so many different intentions...I'm not going to talk about the plus/minus point of having a friends or determining which one is most faithful and useful to become your trusted friends, because there's no such formula to determine that and there's too many chain mail about friendship that I'm sure you already read about it some. But at least I like to talk about the reality of being friends/friendly, or maybe in general being social creatures. Maybe I like to share some of my experience with friends (of course no subject/name to be mention for the sake of privacy) and some conclusions that I've made about friends. Of course this is only representing my views not the worlds class scientific views, but at least I tried to be neutral and give the best balance as I can.</div><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/images.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/images.jpg" /></a></div>No doubt about it, that we're in fact a social being, we need to interact with others and make contacts with others. There's some experiment going on how people behaviors changed gradually after they separated by the societies, and I see it kinda disturbing. No need examining others people, just tried yourself, make yourself as comfortable as you can without any interference from your friends, I'm sure in a week tops and you'll start to missing them. So...why do I need a friends? despite of our nature as social creature?</div><div style="text-align: justify;">One thing that I learn in this life that, friends is the most essentials part for determining whether you'll succeed in this world or not. It is not only your intelligent, or your attitude towards world, but also how you able to manage the network of friends of yours. Sometimes the opportunities to succeed in this world between you and others people is only separated by fact of how many people/network of friends do you have. Because is a simple common sense that the bigger your network is, the faster you get the information also. And surely they'll prefer to work with friends rather than a new person. It is not only specifically for work life, but also in daily life. Lets say if some how you need to communicate about something to convince other people, friends can be very helpful as a viral. Hence it is undoubtedly that to be survive in this world, having a friends is a part of something that you need to have as mandatory.<br />
I've my only mother and my father past away more than 10 years ago, I see how she struggling thru day by day, she keeps telling me that the only reason for her to keep her spirit of living is because of their sons even thou we're parted by two different countries. I really feel the loneliness in her world without any friends to talk with. She's trying to make friends with others, but it just different and awkward, and sometimes make her agitated. I understand fully why she's behave like that because even my self also sometimes felt that way, its just not easy nowadays when we're already filled with all the crowd of the world or environments. I'll describe it in the next point.<br />
I hardly to imagine, people without having friend at all in this world, because it is already our nature to continuously communicating with each other, how depressed their world would become. Because he/she will need to think about almost everything on his/her own. So we can say friends are integral part of our lives in this world, its influencing us, its break into our core of lives everyday and involving very much in our lives. I only gives you example how friends play a very big roles in our lives especially our work life. there's many others area that you can think of, but I think this one should be enough.</div><br />
<u><b>Get As Much Friends As You Can Since School Age</b></u><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/images-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/images-1.jpg" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;">One of the most magnificent adventure in your life is school/college age. This is the time when you starting to develop your thought, attitude, personalities, and principles in life. It's one of the best time in your life because all you need to think is only have fun (and a bit of study of course <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=13.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/13.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>). I remember when I was in junior school, I can make friends with anybody else, regardless the race, religion, status, anything, without any expectations. As long as you and him/her have similar activities I'm sure you will connected with each other automatically. Still remember until now all my good memories of my school day, rushing home from school so can go play with my friends, never thinking of any other else than just killing time in fun with friends, laughing, fighting <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=61.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/61.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>, go fooling around, trying stupid things <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=48.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/48.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>...all that we worries about just when the sun starting to go down and starting to darken the world, and our maid starting to dragging us back home. And when we're in high school, more friends come for you. Start to learning about brotherhood, making group and stand up to defend your own school. Starting to flirting to girl friends <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=14.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>, expanding to experiencing different gender friendships, sharing your love stories, or even love affairs. And of course...crashing to people birthday parties even we never know who the hell she is, its one of the best time in our life indeed. But the best has yet to come...yep college life !. Partying all day all nite without afraid to wake up early tomorrow for school.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Of course, you still will met with a new friends in the work life. in fact I've one of my best experience in friendship between colleague. It's like best friends between boss and their boys, facing hard time together and have a good laugh in 24h coffee shop after overtime together. But are you realizing that your scope of friends become lesser and lesser, there's no never ending friendship.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Colleague resigning, looking for different chances in different companies or even countries, or simply because to busy with their office life that need to be taken care of everyday. Your friends from college maybe starting to having their own business or relationship to be maintained, your friends from high school or junior school maybe still like to contact you, but maybe you already move from your previous places to another, or even different countries so its getting difficult to maintain and because of your activities then you start to forget about them?. Yes,...maybe you can argue with me that you still have your childhood friends that still keep in touch with you. But I dare to bet with you that at least one of your best friend from childhood is starting to missing from your sight or contact <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=03.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/03.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>.<br />
Maybe I haven't experiencing married life by the time I wrote this. But from seeing my sister life-hood or some of my friends after married (some of them are very kind to share their own married life), their time for friends are very limited, even sometimes they don't care anymore. Of course it's very understandable because maybe they already having a good new life and getting busy enjoying their new experience or simply because they have new priorities in life. And have you notice that you technically already abandon your friend, your friendship that you enjoy before. There's no right or wrong in this case, its just reality of life...some still able to manage it, but some can't.<br />
Given by this fact. I think you should nod your head with me when I say...the best opportunities in your life time for recruiting friends as much as you can was in your school-hood. Where only the purest kind of friendship developed since there's no hidden intentions ever need to be thought that time by you. And you start to realize that getting older of you, more hard for you to open your heart for friendship like you develop in school-hood. There's a manner that you need to consider whether suitable with your personalities or not, because at this stage, people are able to think and judge you, which lead to rejection or acceptance. Its getting harder when involving with 2 different culture, race, or religion. Sometimes even worst, you can be rejected before your attempt to make friends because of you images crafted by your other friends. Sometimes it is not your fault, simply because they also don't have time to manage a new friends.<br />
Yes there's still possibilities (hey...nothing is certain in this world afterall <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=03.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/03.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>) maybe you found your truly best friends now not in your school-hood, even thou I doubt if there's no intention involved. Even if the intention is because he/she is also as lonely as you, that still as intention. And something that involving intention tend to break easily when the intention is archived and getting bored, then you are going to start looking for different alternatives.<br />
So, by having bigger network of friend from childhood, means can give you a little assurance that the longer you will have friends in this life, can be translated as the possibilities of being afraid lonely should be lesser and easier for you to manage because you should already familiar with your friends attitude or views, no need for you to learn from scratch. </div><br />
<u><b>There's No Such Thing As True Friends</b></u><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/images-2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/images-2.jpg" /></a></div>Maybe in this topic, you gonna be swarming me with with alot of evidences or examples, that there is something called true friend. First we need to understand what true friends is, which criteria that able to form a friend become a true friends for you. I believe sometimes you got a chain mail regarding true friends. Some saying that true friends are loyal and honest friends, some other say trustworthy friends are the most appropriate term for true friends, some only need a continuous relationship just to be a true friends and a lot of others definition to define which one is the true friend of yours. Some times I've encounter conversation with my friends, talking about friendship and true friend, one of them even believe that because the duration of becoming your friend are longer than others, than they entitled as true friends.<br />
I have my own stand regarding true friends. Yes, for me there's no such thing called true friends. All of them have the same degree as friends. Because if you called someone as a true friends, the bearer should have no intention at all to the caller. Meaning the connection should be far from any "needs" either it is realized or not. But if you think it again, actually you choose your friend by your own preferences, and also there's probability that you choose them because you need them, maybe because human are social being so the need of communicating with each other become a basic necessities (something that planted in your subconscious so a bit hard to be spotted). Also by labeling your friend as true friends are like labeling an imperfect human become a flawless kind of human, the expectation of course become higher and tend like "no room for error" kinda type, and usually a single glitch can make your true friends become your worse enemy just in second. Maybe my stand a bit miss oriented, so let's try to evaluate some of popular description about true friend that I got.<br />
True friend are someone that always stand beside you when you need their support. Even thou your friend are in the middle of something that's more important than your problem, they will straightly stand beside you and letting go their activities for you <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=13.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/13.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>. Now let's check with the reality <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=09.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" style="vertical-align: bottom;" /></a>, suppose you're entitled as best friend by one of your friend and you are now in the middle of signing contract of a billion dollars contract, suddenly your friend called and asking for your support. My senses telling me almost 100% you will say "please wait", or maybe easier just ignore it until you finish your own problem/deal than you'll go for your friends. Maybe you can say, wait until finish. Its still count as de-prioritizing right?. We must understand that in time, your true friend slowly have to move their own life and set (prioritizing) you not as high as before. So there's nothing eternal here, all are going to fade soon or later by time. <br />
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It's late, but the cold of the night keeps me awake, suddenly my mind flashes back. Some new status in the facebook popping out in this cold friday nite, and it just knocked my head, really hard. Once again I realizing, how things are changing, nothings last forever. Specially human. And not one of us able to prevent it. What we have is only, a good old memories...</div>
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Once I felt it so close and almost like brotherhood, but now I don't even knew whether I remembered as part of it or not. I don't know is it because of me or just them, that make this not working as it used to be. I've done my part to fix it (at least according to my understanding, and I'm sure it's more that obvious for them to notice my actions). I've seen some of them also trying the same, even thou not all. But I don't know, is it a sincere or just bull crap to make conversation, it's just not working as used to be anymore...is it only some bullshit crap talk that they do to me? I truly don't know, but I believe my desire are sincere. I realize the needs of making friends, that's why I've tried to keep it wholeheartedly. But to bad I can't read their thought, is it the same like me or not.</div>
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I realize, ego is playing the biggest part on each of us, that's why I've tried to make it up first, I believe I've lowered my ego more than needed but still no respond. I think I just have to accept the reality of life, that friends come and go, sometimes when our interest are the same, then we can be like great friends. But when the interest are shifted/changing/not the same anymore, than we just...a friend, period. No matter how many contributions or sacrifices that you already done in the past to keep the friendship strong, when the interest are shifted...It makes no different.</div>
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One thing that keep me amaze, seem the taoism principal about yin and yang are working perfectly, balancing our life between yin and yang. When one of your side losses something, our subconscious seem forcing us to fill in the gap with other things, until its find the balances. That's really amaze me, how I can willingly to find a new friends without any comments, and its flowing pretty much not like when I've friends, seem like getting boost from our own subconscious. Yes, I've a new group of friends now, and it was fun, its different but still enjoyable. But I still waiting to be accepted as used to be and in any other groups also. Because I treasure friendship. A lot. <br />
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It's already explained in the 1st part, that there's no such thing as true friends. But can we identified who is the most faithful among friends, someone who we can trust. Because it is our nature to communicate with each other of our own kind. Are there any formula to decide that he/she able to become the most faithful from any other of our friends? Apparently, Not. We must realize that they are human too, they have the same need as all of us, and sometimes people loose faith too and it become backfired to us who have faith in them. Some identifier that we can use as indicator is <i>Interest</i>. Only when we have the same interest than we can be a good friends and faithful, sometimes the level of priority also determining are u a truly friend or just a friend. One of our best/true friend, that having probability of reliability higher than others even having Interest in us, who are they? <u>our parents</u>. They're the most pure (in term of interest) for helping us. Because their interest is more mature than others, they don't have any interest to back-stab your, they don't have any interest to manipulate your life into something terrible, they don't have any interest to put you in danger. Yes there are some cases that parents do that (the opposite), but its a very small chances comparing to any other friends you know. There's to little evidence for us to judge our parents for having bad interest in us, since their giving almost everything (even life) to us, of course that is a huge/life time investment for them, how can it harm to us?</div>
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Sometimes, when we tried to become a good friends with our parent, we stumbled upon many differences with our parents, and you think that it because the era already changing, outdated, and not cool. Often we're more agree with our friend from the same age, because you think its more compliance with our thinking. You must remember that interest can be shifting, and often when you're not aware of that. You maybe still denying how could your true friend can do such thing. Well...It happen, Often ! the easiest example is when your best friend have a boyfriend/girlfriend. But I bet you will find it hard to proving that your parents having a bad intentions to you. </div>
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As a matter of fact. the era hasn't changed much. The basic purposes/needs/goals are still the same, men or woman still the same. The only changes are the packages but inside still the same. The men are still chasing the same fame, beauty, pride, etc and the woman still looking kindness, love, loyalty, etc. So please never under estimate their thinking, but try to put your shoes on them.<br />
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<b>Manage/Maintain Your Friends</b><br />
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I think we agreed that we need to maintain our friends, often its from many different group of friends (community friends, sport friends, hangout friends, etc). Its not possible for us to entertain all of the groups at the same time, there will be a times when we need to prioritize which group we will attend when two or more clashed. Sometimes the groups interest are slightly different with your liking, some others are maybe to demanding to us. So how we able to maintain all of it?</div>
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What the first thing to do....blend in. It's easy to said but it cover a lot of aspect here. Before you can blend in, you need to understand/inspect how the community work, determine who are the leader, the adviser, the entertainer, the wiser, the bastards, and the leftovers. Then try to understand how the society works, how to communicate, which topics that turn them off or on, what are their liking, and how they do jokes. </div>
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Sometimes...decision that you take in your life especially relationship as boy/girlfriend, affecting your friendship as well, and may break the friendship. Maybe because one of them doesn't like your new boy/girlfriend or otherwise, or any other small reasons. I think we need to be ready for that, and always ready/alert in life that suddenly you can be come an alien by your own friends, since decision already made. That's why we must always realize that all is just temporary, we must be able to stand on our own, embrace the loneliness when you're alone. Utilize anything you have now to the max. Always remember that friends are come and go, all you need just start to mingle around in different environment or communities.
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<b>Our View On Friends</b><br />
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<b>Online Friends Are Different With Friends</b><br />
CancelledGitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0Ang Mo Kio, Singapore1.37173 103.847641000000071.3500649999999998 103.82532600000006 1.393395 103.86995600000007tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-54584462183377129572011-03-06T04:40:00.002+08:002011-03-06T05:43:00.147+08:00Soe Hok Gie <br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">I knew his history from a film called "GIE" (<a href="http://milesfilms.net/en/gie/">link</a>). Can't remember how many times I have watched this movie, but it's keep linger in my head. A minority with extraordinaire idealism, a true and pure activist with no sides, a man with vision bigger and higher than any others. Understand and aware of reality that's always can bites you back. A pure thinker at his time. Simply a rebel.</div><br />
Official trailer of this movie :<br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">This film tells about history of a man named Soe Hok Gie, an ordinary chinese descent who born and lives in Jakarta, in the era of dictatorship of Soekarno, the 1st president of Indonesia. Even in early ages he's a rebellion, in this film tells he even argue with his teacher and stand for his idealism only for a small things, that sometimes people don't really care about. At that time teachers was always right but he denied even it's lead him to retake the school year. He's like to read, hence widening his perspective. In this film also tells about his contribution and his work influencing the people through his writing when he was in the college, and a bit of his personal life, his view, and how he suffer for still holding on his idealism when other people just simply following the trends.</div><br />
Some references regarding Soe Hok Gie<br />
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<ul><li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFSoe1983">Soe, Hok Gie (1983) (in Indonesian), <i>Catatan Seorang Demonstran</i>, Jakarta: Lembaga Penelitian, Pendidikan dan Penerangan Ekonomi dan Sosial.</span><span class="Z3988" title="ctx_ver=Z39.88-2004&rft_val_fmt=info%3Aofi%2Ffmt%3Akev%3Amtx%3Abook&rft.genre=book&rft.btitle=Catatan+Seorang+Demonstran&rft.aulast=Soe&rft.aufirst=Hok+Gie&rft.au=Soe%2C%26%2332%3BHok+Gie&rft.date=1983&rft.place=Jakarta&rft.pub=Lembaga+Penelitian%2C+Pendidikan+dan+Penerangan+Ekonomi+dan+Sosial&rfr_id=info:sid/en.wikipedia.org:Soe_Hok_Gie"><span style="display: none;"> </span></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFSoe1990">Soe, Hok Gie (1990) (in Indonesian), <i>Di Bawah Lentera Merah: Riwayat Sarekat Islam Semarang, 1917–1920</i>, Jakarta: Frantz Fanon Foundation.</span><span class="Z3988" title="ctx_ver=Z39.88-2004&rft_val_fmt=info%3Aofi%2Ffmt%3Akev%3Amtx%3Abook&rft.genre=book&rft.btitle=Di+Bawah+Lentera+Merah%3A+Riwayat+Sarekat+Islam+Semarang%2C+1917%E2%80%931920&rft.aulast=Soe&rft.aufirst=Hok+Gie&rft.au=Soe%2C%26%2332%3BHok+Gie&rft.date=1990&rft.place=Jakarta&rft.pub=Frantz+Fanon+Foundation&rfr_id=info:sid/en.wikipedia.org:Soe_Hok_Gie"><span style="display: none;"> </span></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFSoe1995">Soe, Hok Gie (1995) (in Indonesian), <i>Zaman Peralihan</i>, Yogyakarta: Yayasan Bentang Budaya.</span><span class="Z3988" title="ctx_ver=Z39.88-2004&rft_val_fmt=info%3Aofi%2Ffmt%3Akev%3Amtx%3Abook&rft.genre=book&rft.btitle=Zaman+Peralihan&rft.aulast=Soe&rft.aufirst=Hok+Gie&rft.au=Soe%2C%26%2332%3BHok+Gie&rft.date=1995&rft.place=Yogyakarta&rft.pub=Yayasan+Bentang+Budaya&rfr_id=info:sid/en.wikipedia.org:Soe_Hok_Gie"><span style="display: none;"> </span></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFSoe1997">Soe, Hok Gie (1997) (in Indonesian), <i>Orang-orang di Persimpangan Kiri Jalan: Kisah Pemberontakan Madiun 1948</i>, Yogyakarta: Yayasan Bentang Budaya, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Standard_Book_Number" title="International Standard Book Number">ISBN</a> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/978-979-8793-31-8" title="Special:BookSources/978-979-8793-31-8">978-979-8793-31-8</a>.</span></span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFAnderson1970"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benedict_Anderson" title="Benedict Anderson">Anderson, Ben</a> (April 1970), <a class="external text" href="http://cip.cornell.edu/seap.indo/1107140696" rel="nofollow">"In Memoriam: Soe Hok-Gie"</a>, <i>Indonesia</i> <b>9</b>: 225–227, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Standard_Serial_Number" title="International Standard Serial Number">ISSN</a> <a class="external text" href="http://www.worldcat.org/issn/0019-7289" rel="nofollow">0019-7289</a><span class="printonly">, <a class="external free" href="http://cip.cornell.edu/seap.indo/1107140696" rel="nofollow">http://cip.cornell.edu/seap.indo/1107140696</a></span>.</span><span class="Z3988" title="ctx_ver=Z39.88-2004&rft_val_fmt=info%3Aofi%2Ffmt%3Akev%3Amtx%3Ajournal&rft.genre=article&rft.atitle=In+Memoriam%3A+Soe+Hok-Gie&rft.jtitle=Indonesia&rft.aulast=Anderson&rft.aufirst=Ben&rft.au=Anderson%2C%26%2332%3BBen&rft.date=April+1970&rft.volume=9&rft.pages=225%E2%80%93227&rft.issn=0019-7289&rft_id=http%3A%2F%2Fcip.cornell.edu%2Fseap.indo%2F1107140696&rfr_id=info:sid/en.wikipedia.org:Soe_Hok_Gie"><span style="display: none;"> </span></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFMaxwell2001">Maxwell, John (2001) (in Indonesian), <i>Soe Hok-Gie: Pergulatan Intelektual Muda Melawan Tirani</i>, Jakarta: Pustaka Utama Grafiti, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Standard_Book_Number" title="International Standard Book Number">ISBN</a> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/978-979-444-422-1" title="Special:BookSources/978-979-444-422-1">978-979-444-422-1</a>.</span><span class="Z3988" title="ctx_ver=Z39.88-2004&rft_val_fmt=info%3Aofi%2Ffmt%3Akev%3Amtx%3Abook&rft.genre=book&rft.btitle=Soe+Hok-Gie%3A+Pergulatan+Intelektual+Muda+Melawan+Tirani&rft.aulast=Maxwell&rft.aufirst=John&rft.au=Maxwell%2C%26%2332%3BJohn&rft.date=2001&rft.place=Jakarta&rft.pub=Pustaka+Utama+Grafiti&rft.isbn=978-979-444-422-1&rfr_id=info:sid/en.wikipedia.org:Soe_Hok_Gie"><span style="display: none;"> </span></span> Translated from <span class="citation report">Maxwell, John (1997). Soe Hok-Gie: A Biography of a Young Indonesian Intellectual. (Ph.D. thesis). <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Australian_National_University">Australian National University</a>. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Online_Computer_Library_Center" title="Online Computer Library Center">OCLC</a> <a class="external text" href="http://www.worldcat.org/oclc/223012031" rel="nofollow">223012031</a>.</span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFJahja2002">Jahja, H. Junus (2002) (in Indonesian), <i>Peranakan Idealis: Dari Lie Eng Hok sampai Teguh Karya</i>, Jakarta: Kepustakaan Populer Gramedia, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Standard_Book_Number" title="International Standard Book Number">ISBN</a> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/978-979-9023-84-1" title="Special:BookSources/978-979-9023-84-1">978-979-9023-84-1</a>.</span><span class="Z3988" title="ctx_ver=Z39.88-2004&rft_val_fmt=info%3Aofi%2Ffmt%3Akev%3Amtx%3Abook&rft.genre=book&rft.btitle=Peranakan+Idealis%3A+Dari+Lie+Eng+Hok+sampai+Teguh+Karya&rft.aulast=Jahja&rft.aufirst=H.+Junus&rft.au=Jahja%2C%26%2332%3BH.+Junus&rft.date=2002&rft.place=Jakarta&rft.pub=Kepustakaan+Populer+Gramedia&rft.isbn=978-979-9023-84-1&rfr_id=info:sid/en.wikipedia.org:Soe_Hok_Gie"><span style="display: none;"> </span></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="citation" id="CITEREFSuryadinata1995">Suryadinata, Leo (1995), <i>Prominent Indonesian Chinese: Biographical Sketches</i> (3rd ed.), Singapore: Institute of Southeast Asian Studies, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Standard_Book_Number" title="International Standard Book Number">ISBN</a> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/978-981-3055-04-9" title="Special:BookSources/978-981-3055-04-9">978-981-3055-04-9</a>.</span></span></li>
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There's a lot of quotes in this film that I really likes. Simply because his quote are logical, rational, based on the reality. these are a few that I like to remember.<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><i>"Lebih baik diasingkan daripada menyerah pada kemunafikan"</i><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>"Better to be exiled rather than surrender to the hypocrisy"</i></span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;">A very bold idealism, only able to come out from extraordinaire people, this quotes warns you about being ideal is costly, sometimes even cost your life as well. But are you rather live with hypocrisy?</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Some people rather live in society with mask in their face just to make sure his life is more secure, being silent, just follow the winner. Some people even don't dare to stand up and show the world about his thinking, all they do just smile here and there, every time there's a different opinions what he can do just laugh or yes sir even-though he has different opinion about the problem.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">A leader, should have an unshakable idealism, always ready and open for criticism. And when people starting to moving away from the idealism to something that hypocrite, he should able to stand on his feet and influencing other to follow you. Even thou this kind of act will affect to you life badly, from a small issue like being expelled from the society or even worse, lead to and end of life. Some people may ask to you "why you do that?", you must understand that you're obliged to stand on your thinking, the one that you think right. It is your duty to protect of what you have learn/experienced and you summarized into a thinking/attitude.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><span class="messageBody">Nasib terbaik adalah tidak pernah terlahirkan<br />
Yang kedua adalah dilahirkan tapi mati muda<br />
Yang tersial adalah berumur tua<br />
Berbahagialah mereka yang mati muda<br />
- Soe Hok Gie</span></i></span></h6><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":"msg"}" style="text-align: center;"><i style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="messageBody"> </span>The best fate <span class="" id="result_box" lang="en"><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations"></span><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">is</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations"></span><span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations"></span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">ever</span> being born<span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations"></span><br />
<span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">The second</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">was</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">born</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">but</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">died</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">young</span><br />
<span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">The most unfortunate</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">is the</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">aged</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations"></span><br />
<span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">Blessed are those</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">who</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">die</span> <span class="hps" title="Click for alternate translations">young</span></span></span></i><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="messageBody"> </span></i><i><span class="messageBody"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">Some people after reading this poems by Soe Hok Gie, will think how stupid he is, how come this kind of non sense can be rational or logical, some other think that he is thinking of die young. I'm not saying they are wrong, its just they prefer live in a dream/illusion rather than knowing the reality. Soe Hok Gie teach us to see that "life is a suffering" just like when he quote Buddha's saying in the film. If you try flashback back to your early life, let's say when you're still in junior school, then you comparing it with your current life right now. How happy you are without any problem/task/burden that you need to do when you're younger comparing to now?. Some people say, its a pessimist way of view a life. But truth is sometimes can be bitter, and by knowing the truth you'll have more perspective and ways to overcome this reality.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">I remember last time when we have an argue regarding this view, some people think its just because you think that was suffering then you cannot appreciate your life and prefer die young, some other say, if you think the problem/task/burden in the future as a burden of course it will become a burden, but if you think it as a challenge, it will become a boost for ours. I think they mislead, it is not pessimist but realistic. No matter how you think or interpret the challenge/problem/task you facing right now, its not changing the reality that there's a addition thing that you need to take care about. How you facing it, whether take it as a challenge or a burden is just a way to make it easier or harder in your life. It still not changing the fact that every year, when you become older, the more task that you need to take care/consider/think about. You're not thinking of how complicated life of marriage that you need to gone through when you still 5 years old, as you getting older you will start to thinking of it and adds into you any other complicated problem that you needs to take care of too. Sure you can take it as a challenge or a gift to having such bless to test your wisdom. But for me its just like faking or ignoring the fact. For me just embrace it as a reality of life that is not become simpler every day, but you also need to realize that turning back is a impossible thing because time only go forward. Putting an end also not even wise because its actually only creating another burden to other people that you know/loves. You must understand that the root of all problems are come from your mind, as long as you able to control your mind and soul. I'm sure you able to find a workaround. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Let say there's two thinker that have assignment to lead their students to the other side of the bridge which even those two thinker never gone before, so those thinkers also don't what lies in the other side of that bridge, but they obligated to. thinker A use a persuasions as a weapon of his choice, by telling there's a good stuffs waiting in the other side of the bridge, and you need to use the bridge to cross the river as the most effective way, and all the obstacle is just a test that you need to embrace and take it as challenge to you, off course this method will motivate the students to cross it. Thinker B use a different approach. What he do is just explain to their student that there's a lot of obstacle in front, but standing is only getting you nowhere, the only way is just do it, there's a lot of ways to overcome the obstacle. </div><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;">There's a lot of any other quotes or lessons in this movie, as an inspirations for us. Like how they use a folk song from <i>Joan Baez</i> called <i>Donna Donna</i> which I find the lyric was so strong telling us how reality work, or when he's trying to persuade his best friend to become vice senate in his college. I really recommend you to read the books also, which reveal more and deeper understanding of his life. To bad not many Indonesian peoples appreciate his work.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Soe Hok Gie, its a honor to know you.</div>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-22346408527821003202011-02-26T02:31:00.007+08:002011-03-06T05:29:23.646+08:00Ibu<div style="text-align: justify;">Hari ini...ya hari ini, sebuah tamparan keras baru saja kuterima. Akan lebih mudah kuterima kalau itu sebuah tamparan yang memerahkan pipi dan menyakitkan kulit wajahku. Sungguh sakit harus kuterima namun bukanlah di kulit, melainkan di hati. Tetap lebih mudah apabila itu hanya dari seorang yang kau anggap pasangan yang akan menemani hidupmu selamanya. Namun bukan...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Hari ini, tiba-tiba saja hilang rasa ku untuk menikmati indahnya melepas minggu. Seperti pada biasanya aku menikmati meninggalkan rutinitas hidup, sekedar untuk berpaling dari realita dan menikmati asyiknya masa muda. Rasanya ingin aku melupakan permasalahan ini dan kembali bercanda dengan teman teman, seperti pada biasanya aku melepas permasalahan yang terjadi dalam rutinitas hidup. Namun kembali rasa muak muncul dan aku kembali memikirkannya. Ini bukan seperti biasanya...</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Tidak seperti biasanya, aku yang selalu mempunyai formula atau nasihat buat permasalahan yang ku hadapai, atau bahkan permasalahan² mereka yang mau menceritakannya padaku. Tidak jarang aku merasa permasalahan mereka akan mudah terselesaikan oleh nasihat ku. Tapi tidak untuk yang ini...aku sungguh bingung.</div><a name='more'></a><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">Dia seorang yang aku hormati, tidak ada rasanya sedetikpun dalam otakku, untuk memikirkan sesuatu yang jahat padanya. Dia hanya ada satu dalam hidup ku dan tidak mungkin dapat tergantikan, rasa-rasanya mustahil bisa aku untuk melukai nya.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Namun dalam perjalanan hidup kita, memang kadang kita tidak bisa sejalan dengan apa yang inginkan oleh nya. Aku sadar aku punya ego akan cita² ku, aku punya keinginan yang pasti berbeda dengan keinginannya, aku punya kepentingan yang berbeda, aku masih ingin mencoba, aku masih ingin bebas.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Aku pun sama dengan dirinya, hanya seorang manusia yang kadang lupa/meremehkan. Aku tau ini klise. Aku hanya mencari alasan, bukan...lebih tepat pembenaran atas kesalahan yang sudah terlanjur aku lakukan. Apakah aku sengaja? TIDAK, apakah aku tak perduli? TIDAK, apakah aku merasa dirinya sudah tak penting lagi dihidupku? TIDAK. lalu dimana letak kesalahan ku???</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Terkadang cita² atau keinginan seorang ibu, dan cita² atau keinginan seorang anak berbeda. Terkadang cita² nya hanya sebatas perhatian dari anaknya, namun si anak menginginkan lebih, cita² yang tinggi membutuhkan dedikasi dan pengorbanan yang sering membuat seseorang melupakan/meremehkan hal² kecil.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Sungguh bisa dimengerti, semakin berumur semakin kita sendiri, semakin sulit rasanya menjalani hidup sendiri, semakin tak jelas apa yang ingin kita capai. Terkadang keinginan kita akan semakin simple, karena kita tahu berharap terlalu besar hanya menambah kesedihan apabila tidak tercapai. Tapi harapan itu akan tetap ada dan terus dimimpikan untuk tercapai.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Aku tidak menyalahkan dirimu, memperlakukan aku seperti itu. Malah aku bersyukur hanya sebatas kata yang tajam yang kau keluarkan, aku harap tidak lebih dari itu. Aku berusaha mengerti kesulitan yang kau hadapi, walau selalu kau pendam dan berharap anak² mu sadar dengan sendirinya. Namun percayalah anakmu belajar. Terus terang sangat dalam dan membekas di hati, tapi aku harap terus berbekas sehingga tidak akan terlupakan oleh anakmu di lain waktu.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Pelajaran yang dapat kupetik, ku yakin suatu saat nanti, disaat waktuku tiba untuk memiliki tanggung jawab seperti dirimu, aku akan lebih baik untuk mengerti diriku, anakku, dan lainnya. Bahwa aku harus membuang semua pikiran² negatif yang ada pada diriku apabila aku berada di posisimu saat ini, bahwa tidak ada seorang anak yang di didik baik akan sengaja berbuat menyakiti orang tua nya. Mereka hanya terkadang lupa atau terlalu asyik dengan dunia nya demi aku juga. Mereka juga punya kesibukan. Walaupun itu SAH sebagai seorang yang memberi makan dan membesarkan anaknya, tapi sungguh dalam sayatan yang kau buat di hati si anak nantinya. Sangat dalam... </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
Ku belajar, bahwa mendapatkan apa yang diinginkan tanpa harus mengatakan adalah suatu kejutan yang sangat besar dalam hidup, apalagi dari seseorang yang kau anggap jagoan terhebat dalam hidupmu. Namun memang ada kalanya hidup tidak seindah itu, ada kalanya harus diucapkan secara blak-blak an dihadapan mereka, sepertinya akan lebih fair dan berharap mereka mengerti kesulitan mu dan mau membantu mu. Memang tidak seindah cerita di sinetron tapi akan membuat hidup mu akan lebih mudah.<br />
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Akan kutanamkan, bahwa sekecil apapun apresiasi dari anakmu adalah hadiah terbesar yang harus kau syukuri, hingga sampai saat ini kau masih bisa mendapatkannya. Walaupun itu sepertinya dipaksakan, namun percayalah, disaat mereka masih berpikir untuk memaksakan waktunya untuk dirimu, mereka benar² mengusahakannya yang terbaik untuk mu. dan dirimu adalah prioritas.<br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Kuharap tulisan ini akan mengingatkan diriku nanti dikala aku mengalami hal yang sama dengan anakku. Bahwa aku pernah mengalami nya sebagai seorang anak.</div><br />
I'm really sorry mommy...<br />
I'll always try to remember and aware so it won't happen again next time.<br />
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Sorry.GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-21525698104974167512010-09-30T00:52:00.003+08:002012-07-11T14:51:12.055+08:00Forbidden Kingdom QuotesThis quotes is taken from movie called "Forbidden Kingdom". Starring Jacky Chan and Jet Li (<a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0865556/">imdb</a>). The scene when they're marching into the Jade Palace through the desert, and making a short rest inside the cave.<br />
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This simple and short scenes for me its really hold a deep values of life<br />
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<i>Its only a small step needed to start everything.</i><br />
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Sometimes in life we're facing so many obstacles and problems, and we always tend to aware and calculating the risks that we might face/took, then when we think that the solutions was to complicated or impossible to be taken, we're starting to over thinking everything and forgetting the basic abilities that we have, in the end its only become a big bullshit or NATO (No Action Talk Only). Preemptive action or thinking is a good thing for a consideration of go or no go, but please don't make it as the a road block that cannot be conquered, because sometimes its not the tools that determining our success but our own will. Always remember to set your target in 3 range...long term, short period, and now. Set your goal (long term) and path that need to be taken in short period (next year, next month, next week), but don't forget to set action now. The smallest step is enough, because everything always start from the smallest step we take. Only thinking or standing and questioning everything will not solving anything.<br />
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I remember my sister have this picture hanging in her office, this movie scene reminds me of her and her picture also <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=eicon12_biggrin.png" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/eicon12_biggrin.png" /></a>. Even when we're in the near death, still here's opportunities to escape or even fight back. All you need is just keep calm, understand the situations clearly and take actions fast like there's no tomorrow. I'm understand sometimes when we're sick or not in a good condition/mood, its very hard to motivate our self and we tend to give up easily. I hope this scene/picture can linger in our mind, so next time we can keep motivated our self to get back on our feet as soon as possible, strike back when somebody kick you down. Always remember that you're still breathing, means you still have your own conscience and rational mind so you should be able to take the necessary actions. I remember my father always force me to eat veggies and very bitter pill of medicines when I'm sick even though I never like it, now I understand that we must push our own limit of comfort, because to live a better life (not sick) is only by swallowing all the bitterness of medicines. That's is the reality that we should took. There's always an "ugly" situations that we must took in every journey in this life, not to mention a dead end or a trap. But remember face back if you see dead end and take other route, keep grasping until you escape from the traps.<br />
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So never forget that you're still breathing...take a step...never give up...even the cost is your own life.<br />
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<br /></div>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-38388891891121572922010-07-10T05:31:00.003+08:002011-11-02T02:03:58.795+08:00The New Start - Singapore - Part 2Nice, very nice experiences here in Singapore, some of my friends greets me, then she's continue asking "And...How About You?". At first...I'm just stand and look down, nothing came up from my mouth, again I tried to throw a simple jokes just to diverting the conversations, but my mouth felt so stiff. I replied "Still alive and trying to kick'n" <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/01.gif" />.<br />
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<span class="fullpost"><span class="fullpost2">Something that I learned that actually what is the most precious in this world. <i>Family Is The Most Important Thing In Life</i> . When I'm feeling so down (especially after my broke up), my mother is the one that giving me impression that I wasn't that bad, I'm only a kid from a small villages with no advantages, but see now I've ended up in Singapore, able to earn more than my friends, I can (at least) fed myself and enjoying a good living and lifestyle by my own. Now I'm the pride for my family. All of this achievement was came from my parent rants and advices that sometimes we neglect. I believe even your very best friend can't support you better than your parent, even your GOD is nothing compare to your parent. Why? because they can give you the last resort, not only when you success but even how fcked up you've become, they provide you a concrete solutions rather only hope, they will prefer to save it for you before they save it for themselves. So for me <i>Family Come 1st.</i> I'll defend it till my last breath.</span></span></div>
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<span class="fullpost"><span class="fullpost2">2nd most important is<i> Your Best Friends.</i> I've always trying to find friends as many as I can before I'm getting old, and secluded in this world. Because only with friends you can't feel so lonely. You can share stories with each other, or even compete each other. It give you a purpose into your life, it give you sense of how importance you in this world. Only with best friends you can share what you already archive in this world with sincere and no obligation, and you also can brag it in front of them <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=48-1.jpg" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/48-1.jpg" /></a> and also learning what your friends is already archive.</span></span></div>
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<span class="fullpost2">I was like a car just got fixed, and starting to moving again. But in front of me there's so many intersections that I need to choose, all of them are heading to somewhere that you can't see the end of it. Which way should I choose?....which one is the best way for me to continue my life?. I realize that now I'm in the middle of nowhere, no-one can guide you better than yourself so this is a decision that you need to take it and you must ready if it is turn out that you're choosing the hard way not the high way, this road is something that you must choose, you can't just stand and staring at the road, looking at the other cars passing your way. Not only that, you also losing something that you can claim...that is <i>Time</i>. The best way to find out that are you moving in the high way or the wrong way is by stepping at your gas and start to choose a way, later you will find out whether you're in the right direction or not. I must understand that choosing also need calculation and consideration. You must prepare something for the road and the most important thing to run a car. Yes...you need a <i>Fuel</i>. Only with fuel your car engine can start the journey. What I understand right now is I can prepare only the fuel while choosing my way, only with enough fuel you can have at least peace of mind that if something happen, you can always turn back to your checkpoint.</span><br />
<span class="fullpost2">Now I'm moving...even I realize I'm moving very slow, at least I'm keep moving. Still there's many intersections that I need to choose, one after another and it will keep coming and coming again. So I wrote this also for keeping my trails so later I can return back to my last checkpoint and re-evaluate my way. In my mind, I always want to speed things up because I realize I'm moving to slow. But some people saying actually I'm moving to fast, and ask me to slowing down and enjoy the ride. This idea makes me thinking to enjoy the process, because only with joy you can appreciate what you already archive in this life. Stop worrying the future to far ahead, planning for future is good, but better if can divide it into short, med, and long term. And start to determine what you have, what you don't have and also action that need to be taken, either the immediate actions also the planned actions. Because the only way to run is by making the first step <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=5.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/5.gif" /></a> </span></div>
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<span class="fullpost2">Of course, after you fell off, you tend to set a new perimeter to avoid getting fall again. Also for me, I try to makes some perimeter, also some guidance for myself so I won't fall again in the same well. Although sometimes its kinda blur to draw the line but at least I understand that drawing the line in your mind keeps me conscious and a must or I no longer smarter than a donkey <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=50.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/50.gif" /></a>. Firstly I need to understand what actually I need in this life, as this might be for my lifetime companion. But as you can see I even don't know where I'm heading too <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=102.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/102.gif" /></a> that's kinda like chicken and egg thing. Sometimes I"m imagining, somewhere out there, she will show up in front of me, with a smile, she will pointing her finger to some direction, and when I ask why...she can explain it to me. This situation always makes me tend to wait to have that sign come up. Its kinda mixed up, because usually girls that doing this kind of way. Some of my friends also keep telling me that this could be a bit impossible. Actually I don't need a smart and rational explanation why she go to that direction, but at least she know what she's looking for, since I still faded by choices. It doesn't matter where we're heading to, because I believe that I can survive anywhere and fit to any circumstances, I can adapt fast, also I have the gasoline to spin the gear. I believe I can be the leader and the driver of that direction.</span></div>
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<span class="fullpost2">Some of them comes, offering the warmth of relationship. Some others give up and move on onto their lives. I truly appreciate it, thanks for being nice and understanding for me. But sorry I cannot give what you seek.</span><br />
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<span class="fullpost2">I have at least more than enough friend to hang out with every weekend, I have some other new friends that calling me every weekend for some new activities, but why I'm still feeling lonely? why I always feel uncomfortable even my mind enjoying the friendship?. Maybe my views is a bit different from others, some people even think I'm crazy, rude, stupid and ignorance because of my views. But, that's was my fact, my understanding, my learning, my believe after I through that circumstances. I try to compose it from different kinds of views, and summarize it as my views. I always trying to being fair, if you can prove me wrong than I'll admit it and tried to change, but sorry if you only give empty hope with no baseline. Some peoples can just accept me as I'm, even thou we have different perspective and view, and able to just aside that and looking for other that we can share in the same boat. I truly appreciate it. I just hoping more friends that able to accept differences, understand that world always has more than 1 views. </span></div>
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<span class="fullpost2">There are some other videos about Ajahn Brahm teaching that really make sense (for me), and understandable, and not just giving you bullshit hopes. Like the question of "What is the meaning of life", I can write for another 2 pages regarding that but maybe better if you can check it for yourself <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=1.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/1.gif" /></a>. Or if you have other views that you can share with me...please share with me. </span></div>
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Actually, there's a lot of experience that I want to share. But at least this is my condition right now. I'm not cursing or asking why to the Deity. It's simply a state/condition that I need to overcome with and I believe there are others that feel the same with me. This blog can be as beacon for me (or else), that tells me "hey...I've through this, and this is my mark/sign that I've been through this"<br />
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Simple reason, I wrote for self. I have not intention to be read by others <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/?action=view&current=108.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/ysmile/108.gif" /></a>. I just hoping that this hosting still alive for the next 20 years and later my son can read this.</span></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-80575325675914479622009-10-13T00:02:00.015+08:002009-10-28T00:11:11.566+08:00The New Start - Singapore - Part 1<div style="text-align: justify;">It's been a while since I left Jakarta, and I don't know why, I feel like going to write somethings. I always felt like "Lonely In The Crowds" and have no idea what I'm suppose to write. But not this night, somethings in my mind (which I don't know what it is) and my finger to start typing. Its not an overnight writings.<br /><br />It's start when I still working in a small multinational company in Kuningan, Jakarta. Actually the main branch of this company is in Singapore, I think they established a new branch in Jakarta, and the good thing is that the pay is good since they're newcomers, so I just toke it <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/53.gif" />. At the first time I'm quite relief that Jakarta still have a good multinational company beside my previous company, but after one of my senior colleague explains to me regarding their PM (yes Mr <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/38.gif" />). I'm starting become a rebellions. I don't care if I shouting or degrade him anymore. At that time I'm realize that maybe I need a break, not just a break but also a breakthrough. I must make changes, not only changes for that company, also changes in me. In that balcony in front of my room...I keep thinking, how to make myself happy? what should I do next? where I'm heading at right now?<br /><br />I see some of my colleagues starting to looking a job in Singapore when Mr <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/38.gif" /> not checking on us, and I don't know why at that time probably because I already feed up with Mr <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/38.gif" />, suddenly I really serious to look for a job in Singapore, after a few attempt and CV tweaks, also 2 weekend going to Singapore (I mean on the weekend twice), a new beginning starting to rise <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/smilies1735.gif" />. I got some offer from some multinational company, also the biggest IT company in Singapore....yeahh <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" />. And *poof* here I am in the City of Lion Singapore since april.<br /><br />Surely I really appreciate to all my friends in my previous company, you guys always supporting me and helping me, even thou I only less that 6 months there, but I'll never forget your guys, all the best !.<br /></div><br />So...Singapore ! and this is my stories...........<br /><br /><span class="fullpost"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Place</span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />The first 2 months after I landed in Singapore with one one-way plane ticket. I feel like "Yes...this is my new start, new energy, new excitement, my new me". I stay in a condo, sharing a room with my friend's friend, at first its quite ok, still feel a bit awkward but hey...we're guys so "ChueX iS dA bESt !" <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" />. And also after we move in, we have a housemate <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" /> a sister and brother. When I see her at the first time, I feel like "Hmm, she's cute...maybe we can hang out together sometimes"...yeah..yeah...I know u people will think that I'm lame using that word, but honest...that's the only thing that comes in mind that times. And the landlord...yes they're nice <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/07.gif" /> too, I also got another new housemate placing the 3rd room recently, quite nice guys indeed.<br /><br />FYI...the room is nothing more than my bathroom in my room back in Jakarta, and still I need to share it with my roommate. A bit difficult for me since I always have my own private room and bathroom and now I need to share it, a little fractions starting to come out...especially after I got my new lappie and some gadgets. Hmm I realize that maybe I just can't stay like that, I'm not use to share with other people, not that I won't, but I just not used to. Now I already move to another place, just 1 MRT away from that condo. Here I stay in HDB just with the landlord, a small family with a very cute little girl, here I have my own room also I can say my own bathroom even its not attached to my room, but better than the last one. Even thou I need to pay more but I feel more comfortable because I have my own privacy again, I just hope that the landlord also feel the same like me.<br /><br />To my roommate, thanks for your kindness to accept me, maybe I'm a bit inconsiderate with you last time. I hope you can accept it as I can accept you also. And to my housemate...to bad I don't have enough guts to make friends with you <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" />. I remember first time we're a starting to talking each other (I mean really talk not just to say hi) is when you just got back from your very very long vacation and by the time I decided to move from that place....I think it's almost 5 months, Anyway, thanks for your kindness, I really appreciate it. You inviting me to your BBQ party and meet with your friends, adding ring tones in your IPhone, also I'll never forget your corn soup (damn...its good you know <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" />). To bad you decided to go back to Indonesia for good, I hope we have time to have dinner together again next time (hahaha....dunno whether you're able/willing/want to do it again together <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/18.gif" />). Hope you still keeping my lousy notebook cooler, that 's the only token I dare to give it to you <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" />. Wish you all the best and hope we still be in touch in the future.<br /></div><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Office</span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">It's so called the biggest IT company in Singapore, owned by the government's telecommunication company in Singapore. I do support for multinational bank, which is one of the biggest banking company in the world and it is the largest bank in the United States by holdings<img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" />. At first I thought this is a step ahead after my previous company, I'm so excited, yet I still remember some of friends say...Even company like Microsoft, deep inside in their internal also messy. So I just cross my finger for that, what I knew just...I got better salary. For me no matter what I do, I just want to see Mr <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SGD">Yusof bin Ishak</a> smiling <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/53.gif" border="0" />.<br /><br />First day, It's like orientations day, I get a one day tour inside the company, get introduced to my PM (even thou just a temporary PM). My impression at that time is this company is well organized, even I get a small things like pen, paperclip, note book, etc which I never see this kind of courtesy before, and this is the first time I get my own table with a name tag <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" /><br /><br />First 3 months, I do nothing (literally). Yes I just browsing the internal website, seeing how well organized the company, like how they organize the leave, how to make claims, they have an updated list of clinic I can go if I'm sick, even they have a page for our temperature check (ow..they also give us free temperature meter <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/smilies1733.gif" />). Some say first month is the honeymoon, but I got 3 month of honeymoon <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/57.gif" />. The next month I just realize that I'm a part of transitions, means I'm going to handle a system that used to managed by other 3rd party, and now will be managed by us, so I do a lot of documentations. Again at first I see the documents templates and it was like "WOW", I never see how well organized the document templates is, it has the field that we should fill in when we go to the incumbent, complete with the description and example if we don't have any idea what field is that. Even before we go to the incumbent, we all get briefed the big plan, the schedules, and the big picture of the transitions what it would be like. FYI total of the documents we need to fill is around 34 excel and 6 documents, each excel contains at least 20 sheets and every sheet is has columns at least 15 columns, and the document it self...only for template is already over than 2 MB. Very impressive indeed...but still, in theory might ok, when it comes to the executions??? I realize and finally understand what my friend told me about reality of working in IT company, and I think it's even worst than what my friend says <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/30.gif" /><br /><br />Now the schedules getting tighter, and now I get clearer pictures about work in Singapore (maybe to naive I say like that, but it is the reality). I see how they just trying to save their own ass, I see a boss that always waiting until you do a mistakes, and when you do that he'll start scold you and take advantage for it, I see how the weak getting crushed by the stronger, I see people that don't have any self confidence getting bullied. They always say team work but in the end it's just a cover so they have scape goat, or at least they can go home early and stranded you in their work until over time. This is just some of my experiences, there are others that I heard from colleagues. I need to constantly thinking, is he up to something, is he doing this in a good cause or just setup?. Here I work with multi races, different culture, different background...It's very hard to tell unless you willing to be scape goat <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/37.gif" />. Pointing finger is a common things here, even lying (in a very cheap way) consider a good way to get rid your problems.<br /><br />Too bad, now the templates is filled with a lot of junks (useless information) and far from what the documents intended to be, and who's to be blame? yes the bottoms level of the structures will get all the scolds, overtime to remake the docs, and finish it on schedules. No matter how right/good are you, they can kick you out just like piece of junk. Even sometimes you must clean out all the mess that even not created by you <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/26.gif" /><br /><br />What I miss a lot is when I work in Jakarta? yes the long working hour is still the same, all the things I said above I also felt it in previous company, but back there...still more easier to find friends, at least someone who still want to support us, even only by accompanying you till you finish by doing nothing. I can feel the sincerity, the friendships. But not here...<br /></div><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Peoples</span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">I still remember, the 1st time I got lunch together with fellow colleagues from Indonesia that also working there, I feel very awkward...how they talk, how the joke'n around, how they think, how the response each other is very very very different with what I often do in Jakarta. I feel like "can I blend in with them??", I thought either they're to lame for me or actually the problems is in me? do I changed, do I really become that lame so I can't blend in <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/06.gif" /><br /><br />After a few times going out with them, I'm starting to catch up with their phase, I'm trying to understand each one of them and looking from theirs point of view. Yes is hard and boring, but I'm willing to do that since I don't have friends here. Actually what they are doing also same with me, they trying to know me, some of them (probably) just give up trying and just take the easy part as ignorant (I mean...just nice to know me), some others still trying, possibly because they also need a friends just like me, but hey...that's how it's work right? the law of supply & demand ? <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/13.gif" />.<br /><br />It started from every friday night out after work, we just go out dinner and after that playing games in some LAN shop around Somerset, sometimes we just sit beside the road, enjoying bean curd until 4 a.m in the morning just waiting first train to come, talking everything...a bit "crispy" but hey, better to kill the day <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" />. Now we have some problems...It seem Singapore is too small and don't have much amusements for us, we often just take dinner and back home after discussing what activities should we take to kill the time, because in the end some people want to do it, some don't and ruins our mood. I try to understand them, because we're all come from different backgrounds(to be truth, I even don't bother to ask them)...so maybe my style is different with them also. Some like nightlife, some just to into playing computer games, some think better go home and sleep <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/31.gif" />, some keep trying and keep thinking what activities that can cater all <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/30.gif" />. I found it pretty hard especially when its involving with <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/53.gif" />, yeah its typical problem but I think we all have our ethic code and we can handle it together.<br /><br />Something that for me is one of the essential part in friendship, is still missing. The ego is very high and afraid/unwilling to do a new thing in friendship, how afraid they're to show/express their own feelings it's like there's no adventurous/renegade/rebellion spirit. But I can understand, I can't push them into my mindset, having them is already a bless in disguise. So I just become as myself and respect their privacies or thought also. Thanks for accepting me as part of the bro's <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" /><br /></div><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Living Cost</span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />After about 6 months here in Singapore, much I can tell that S$1500 is more than enough for single male working class type <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" />. I'll try to break it down<br /><ol><li>Place to stay [300 - 900, Avg : 600]<br />This is the biggest monthly expenses that you need to pay when you're working in Singapore and don't have place to crash. The cheapest way to reduce this, is by sharing a room with your friends, you can share the rent with each other but the down side is you also need to share with each other, and lack of privacy. But if you really don't mind...this can save alot.</li><li>Eat [300 - 600, Avg : 450]<br />With S$15 you can eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner in a decent hawker and I'm sure its enough, mostly per meal is around S$5 already with drinks. If you want to save more, you can bring your own drinks (but be carefull because some place they don't allow you to do that), or order food that comes with soup. For weekend dinner/parties sure you need to pay for more, the cheapest hang out place foods is like around S$12 per meal.</li><li>Groceries (150 - 300, Avg : 200)<br />Chocolate, tidbits, cakes, crackers, can drinks, or your personal needs like soap, shampoo, etc. This is depend on the each peoples, but from my experiences S$200 is like 2 months of supplies <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/52.gif" />.</li><li>Hang out (~300)<br />This also very subjective, depend on your lifestyles. But if it's only like going out, dinner, play games, pools, bowl, brewing, buy some gadgets, accessories, etc. I think its enough.</li></ol>FYI I haven't calculate for transports, taxi, taxes, etc. But what I can say is I'm able to maintain myself with S$1500 per month. As long as you're default setting for lifestyles is not high enough. Please don't use my experiences for benchmarks, just make it as stupid lame lifestyles <img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" /><br /><br />So...this is the 1st part of my new start in Singapore. Feel free if you want to ask other things, see you in the 2nd part of me in Singapore<br /></div><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-65596496694541390852009-09-02T00:32:00.010+08:002009-09-10T00:17:03.343+08:00[INCO] 1 Sept 2009<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/309911f4.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/309911f4.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Hope can reach one or two more point <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=53.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/53.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br />Already collect @4200, TP 4350. Since DOW is not too friendly this night, might realize half of the porto @4300, Good Luck !<br /><br />Some data to be highlighted<br /><br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/?action=view&current=19045a2b.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/19045a2b.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="240px" width="320px" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/?action=view&current=db297a65.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/db297a65.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="240px" width="320px" /></a><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Update 2 Sept 2009<br /></span><br /><span class="fullpost"><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/873f368a.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/873f368a.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=02.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/02.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> Williams %R failed to move out from oversold area<br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=02.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/02.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> MACD pointing down to oversold area<br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=14.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> Stoch still cross in oversold area<br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=14.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> Double bottom @4150<br /><br />Note : Double bottom based on the textbook is consider valid if separated not like in this case, in this case I just use this term because I see there's a big support line @4100 that need to be considered. <br /><br />Most of the transactions traded @4200<br /><a href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/0166f9e5.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/0166f9e5.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="240px" width="320px" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/?action=view&current=22fa059c.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/22fa059c.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="240px" width="320px" /></a><br /><br />IHSG position is in critical points, but still on channels<br /><br /><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/?action=view&current=5ace14f7.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/5ace14f7.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="240px" width="320px" /></a><br /><br />DOW is fluctuating. As per this time -2.42<br /><br />Lets hope @4150 barrier is not broken, hope for the best !<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Update 3 Sept 2009</span><br /><br />Everything seem still on track, today's candlestick is full marubozu even with short candle and volume below average. Stoch and Will%R start to pointing up again, MACD still in oversold area. IHSG indicating golden cross soon according MACD(TEMA-Smoothed)<br /><br />DOW seem friendly (+22), lets hope there's a gap up tomorrow, to finish up this project, btw 1st target 4300 already done, so next is 4350 as final sell<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Update 9 Sept 2009</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/9-9-200911-45-15PM.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Charts/9-9-200911-45-15PM.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Sorry for not updating, got some problem with my internet connection here (SingNet sux)...what I remember just there's some news about INCO regarding their factories. But as you can see in chart, the candlestick is still on track and break 4375 at 8 Sep. At this time I have no trading stock for INCO. As per today candlestick seem INCO able to go up more than 4400.<br /><br />So project INCO - Catching a dropped knife is success in 9 days ;)<br /><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-34225837253147738342009-01-24T03:11:00.006+08:002009-02-18T00:31:56.147+08:00Maybe Miracle Do Exists - Happy New Year 09There's some experiences that I think is very sensational, its start from the day before Christmas and after new year eve 09, I still feel the comfort till now. Maybe for them that have faith/religion this kind of experiences is just ordinary experiences. But for me as skepticism...I found it so weird.<br /><br />It began just before Christmas...<br /><span class="fullpost"><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">I remember in that December, one of my friend (hmm should I say friend? since even we know each other coincidentally in stock forum and officially just meet twice or so <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=33.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/33.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>) just called Drey, she introduce me with this girl Tini, first I dunno how to start but dunno why, Its like a river flows and then we both become friends. We often go to see movie together or have a nice dinner and chat, sometimes we chat for 3-5 hours in YM. Its like oasis in desert that time, its the first time I want to go out after my breakup and I found that very amusing, very nice to have (girl)friends again just on the right time when I'm feeling that I have nobody in this world. When Tini decide to go back to her hometown on Chrismas eve, that time I feel alone again. So I decided to go back to my hometown too.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Still linger in my head, it's going be the worst holidays ever in my life, imagine a whole week without someone, not even a single person. So I just want to spend whole holidays in my hometown, enjoying my loneliness alone. At that time, even for checking my phone, I feel bored and useless to do that, i bet nobody still remember and want to say even just hi or happy holidays to me, so i just throw my phone and to lazy to re-charge it. I spent so many times with my cousins Asen, we play PS2, going to internet cafe, swimming, play basket, etc. I'm so damn relaxed and I feel like I'm 10 years younger, all i do just play and eat hahaha just like a <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=36.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/36.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">On Christmas night, just lay low on the bench doing nothing, just staring at the night sky, feel bored and looking for some activities, trying to re-charge my phone again, and what? 12 missed call and 4 sms <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=52.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/52.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> from my ex's (of course not the last one <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=09.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>). Imagine almost 15 years and she still remembering me as stubborn agnostic and wishing me a marry Christmas <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=07.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/07.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>. We chat till morning that night, expressing how grateful I'm and thanks her for still remembering me. On the next day we see each others and talking a lot of thinks, remembering good old days...when there's nothing to worry about, and she giving me a cd full of Christians mp3 <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=04.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/04.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> as Christmas present...hehehe yeap...she always believe that I'll repent someday. Again suddenly I don't feel bored anymore, I found someone that still remember and thinks me special.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Back to Jakarta, the joy's continue, we often go threesome <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=03.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/03.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>. Me, Drey, and Tini. Since Drey is in "It's Complicated" with her boyfriends, we often chat and share our thought, also we go to see movie or something...you have no idea what feel that day <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=04.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/04.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> just like sheik from Arab or something hahaha. The best part is we go karaoke and sing like a nuts. Also when Tini help me looking for a new suit to go to my ex's (yep the other one, again <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=09.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>) wedding, and with Drey partying around in X2 <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=14.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/14.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> before she depart to China.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">I remember that day, when I'm feel so down. My mom asking me to meet this (should I say) shaman. He say that I'm a lucky boy, so many people will help you when you need to be helped. At that time I just laughing out loud, like I care about that. But when I thinking about it again, geez....Its hard for me to accept that, also not the mention also people that always saying "God Bless You" to me everyday. My logical brain can't accept this kind of statements, but its really realized and I can feel it. So that time, yes I remember just past 2 hour after new years eve. Maybe miracle do exists, maybe there's supreme being that controls our lives, or maybe there's another life forms so called ghost or something that sometimes helps me?.<br /></div><br />Since the questions is still no exacts answers, I'll stick with Karma (which I feel is more logical than others religions) and I just want to say :<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://visiblemantra.org/mantra/allhappy.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 94px;" src="http://visiblemantra.org/mantra/allhappy.png" alt="" border="0" /></a>Its a phrase in Pāli language that taken from Buddhist Mantra. he transliteration is<br /><p class="mantra">sa bbe sa ttā su khi ho ntu<br /></p><p class="mantra">sabbe sattā sukhi hontu</p><p class="mantra">and the translation is <span style="font-weight: bold;">May All Beings Be Happy!</span><br /></p><p class="mantra">Thanks for helping me. Happy New Year 2009<br /></p><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-14450670978438556852008-09-29T18:13:00.005+08:002008-10-04T02:19:46.330+08:00BUMI Waiting For Tech Rebound<div style="text-align: justify;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/dianah2.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/dianah2.png" alt="" border="0" /></a>Hari ini (09/29/2008), BUMI dengan sukses nya mendarat di lingkaran pertama dari prediksi <a href="http://gitzjoey.blogspot.com/2008/09/bumi-downtrend.html">kemarin</a>. Selangkah lagi untuk masuk ke lingkaran terakhir yaitu The moment of truth (based on my prediction yach <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=09.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>).</div><span class="fullpost"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />Hari ini terbentuk long candlestick yang menunjukan ada nya sikap dari investor/trader yang langsung menekan harga BUMI, sempat di tes hingga harga 3100, namun akhirnya masih di tutup di harga 3200. Apabila dilihat dari garis Fibonacci, garis E adalah garis 0% rebound dari tgl 08/29/2008 hingga 09/16/2008, harga BUMI sudah hampir mencapai bottom dari rebound tgl 18, posisi volume juga menunjukan peningkatan dari hari sebelum nya, apabila <span style="font-weight: bold;">didukung oleh regional dan harga batubara</span>, seharusnya BUMI bisa rebound teknikal di level 3025/3050 sehingga membentuk double bottom support.<br /><br />Hal² yang perlu di perhatikan adalah...apabila ternyata support BUMI tidak mampu menahan hantaman dari seller sehingga tembus dibawah harga 3000/2900<br /><br />Update sementara kondisi regional hingga tgl 10/03/2008 sangat tidak mendukung, berikut snapshot dari <a href="http://www.reuters.com/finance/markets/indices">Reuters</a>. Selain itu harga batubara dipasaran internasional juga turun, Situasi regional saat ini tidak menentu akibat belum di terima nya bailout plan di AS.<br /><br />Tidak bisa berharap banyak untuk hari senin nanti, namun semoga IDX bisa berputar melawan arus regional. Sayang saya tidak bisa ikut memantau IDX senin ini karena saya sudah mulai bekerja di tempat baru <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=59.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/59.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /></div><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">update 10/04/2008 1:19:AM</span><br />DPR AS setujui Bailout Plan... semoga bisa untuk mengangkat index DowJones <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=59.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/59.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-16936598186104969872008-09-25T19:25:00.010+08:002008-09-29T18:25:04.302+08:00BUMI Downtrend<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/9-26-20081-24-54AM.png" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/9-26-20081-24-54AM.png" alt="" border="0" /></a>Still downtrend....<br /><br /><span class="fullpost"><div style="text-align: justify;">Pada tgl 09/18/2008, BUMI mengalami rebound dengan kekuatan volume yang cukup signifikan, kemudian dilanjutkan keesokan harinya, BUMI dibuka gap up kemudian naik mencapai harga tertinggi 4225, pada saat itu saya belum begitu memperhatikan karena masih sibuk dengan ANTM dan INCO. Kemudian ditutup 3950, saya hanya melihat sekilas saja dan juga mendengar ada nya berita mengenai naiknya kembali harga minyak yang biasanya memicu kenaikan harga batu bara. Keputusan untuk trading di BUMI di hari senin 09/22/2008 adalah memanfaatkan momentum bottom revelsal BUMI dan juga penguatan harga batu bara, pendukung nya adalah IHSG yg mulai naik.<br /><br />Trading plan saya adalah buy at once saat pre-opening dengan harapan BUMI akan melanjutkan rally nya ke atas, akhirnya saya dapat di posisi opening yaitu 4100. Pada awal nya cukup senang karena dpt harga opening, saya berasumsi gap up yang dibuat BUMI adalah breakaway gap up seperti dihari kemarin nya, dimana gap up ini sebagai tanda untuk melanjutkan kenaikan sebelum nya, selain itu ditandai dengan volume (as top 10 volume pada saat itu). Namun ternyata melemah dan terus melemah, akhirnya BUMI di tutup 3925. Pada saat ini saya mulai serius untuk menganalisa chart BUMI.<br /><br />Kalau diliat dari trend line, terlihat pada tgl 22, harga tertekan sehingga tidak bisa melewati resistance 4175 dan tekanan tersebut berlanjut berusaha mendobrak support tgl 21 namun buyer berhasil menjaga dan ditutup tipis dibawah harga closing kemarin. Pada saat closing kemarin sebenarnya saya sudah bad feeling, apalagi dari hasil menarik garis simple saja (garis A dan garis B) terlihat pola downtrend. Reaksi dari perubahan harga tersebut memaksa saya untuk merubah rencana lebaran makan ketupat dengan operasi penyelamatan <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=34.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/34.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>. Target cut loss dah di set 3900/4000. Tapi sekali lagi namanya manusia...GREED keluar saat harga mulai naik ke 4050/4075 <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=53.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/53.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> sehingga dengan berani nya saya tinggal ke mall <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=56.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/56.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> kemudian ditutup 3900. Pada saat itu saya masih merasa BUMI BISA RALLY besok, Padahal pada saat itu sudah berarti sudah ada 2 KONFIRMASI yang menyatakan BUMI DOWNTREND (oh bodohnyaa....), tgl 24 BUMI dibuka lebih tinggi 25 perak dari closing sebelum nya, sekali lagi masih YAKIN akan melanjutkan trend ke ATAS (OMG !!!) yang akhirnya....tertekan dan terus tertekan. BODOH nya saat harga 3800 masih juga belum di pencet tuh tombol SELL, still can't accept the fact that your analysis is differ with the market, baru setelah sore hampir closing saya cut loss di 3700.<br />Kemudian tgl 25 BUMI melanjutkan downtrend nya hingga closing di 3525.<br /><br />This is the biggest cut loss ever since I'm in IDX <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=31.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/31.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Apakah masih ada harapan di BUMI ?<br />Untuk saat ini masih banyak indicator standard (Bollinger Band, William %R, Stochastic-S) yang memberikan signal bearish. PSAR dan MACD mungkin memberikan signal bull namun perlu diperhatikan bahwa MACD lebih tepat di aplikasikan untuk jangka panjang, dan PSAR boleh dibilang lagging.<br /><br />Bagaimana prediksi untuk tgl 26 dan 29 ?<br />Apabila penurunan BUMI berlanjut maka posisi support ada di harga 3400 - 3475, yang berarti hampir kembali ke harga saat tgl 19, apabila tidak di topang oleh volume beli yang cukup besar berarti ada kemungkinan BUMI akan menutup gap tgl 18-19. Berdasarkan pola candlestick pada tgl 25, terlihat ada perlawanan buyer pada saat harga berusaha ditembus dibawah support (dpt dilihat dari terbentuk nya tail dan closing tepat garis B), hal ini menunjukan buyer BUMI masih berusaha untuk mengangkat harga walaupun di hajar habis²an oleh seller. Apabila besok dibuka dengan harga lebih besar atau sama dengan kemarin ada kemungkinan BUMI tetap turun.<br />So watch out for this stuck day (hari kejepit <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=50.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>) lebih aman stay out terlebih dahulu dari saham ini. Semoga besok/lusa ada konfirmasi revelsal yang didukung dengan volume yang cukup signifikan<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Updated 09/28/2008 - Bottom sudah mulai terlihat</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/9-26-20081-21-49PM.png" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/9-26-20081-21-49PM.png" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Target Price 3000-3300<br /><br /></div></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-36911075754866217932008-09-10T01:22:00.005+08:002008-09-11T23:35:45.980+08:00IDX Closing Gap 08/16/2007<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/gapidx.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/gapidx.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />Setelah hari sebelum nya di perkirakan IDX akan rebound, ternyata hari ini IDX kembali terpuruk, perhatikan kalau pada 08/16/2007 terdapat gap yang belum sempat ditutup, hingga hari ini gap tersebut hampir saja tertutup (perhatikan garis horizontal menandakan penutupan hari ini)<br /><br />Kemungkinan besok akan dibuka gap down untuk menutup gap 08/16/2007 kemudian melanjutkan rebound nya. Just a simple thought and hope from me <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=59.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/59.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Update 09/10/2008</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/idxreal.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/idxreal.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Ternyata ada kesalahan data, sebenarnya kemarin gap sudah tertutup (liat pic), dan kemudian hari ini dibuka gap down dan langsung dipaksa untuk menembus bottom tanggal 08/16/2007, akhir hari terbentung candlestick spinning top, terlihat ada big rush dengan munculnya spike volume hari ini. Apakah sejarah akan terulang kembali spt tgl 08/16/2007 ?<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Update Result</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/morefall.png" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/morefall.png" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />Index kembali tertekan hingga hampir mendekati harga tahun 2007, Candlestick keluar dari Bollinger Band 2 hari berturut turut sepertinya elastisitas IDX mulai mengendur, dari data saya (tahun 2005 sampai skr) IDX belum pernah terjadi hal seperti ini.<br />Apakah akan ada penurunan lagi besok?GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-67261837368202855482008-08-20T11:58:00.004+08:002008-08-20T12:30:44.692+08:00Live Streaming Indonesian TVJust finish updating my winamp playlist...got many new songs especially song that become hits in Philippine. I hope this is my last journey to Manila, and I can back to fixing my private life.<br /><br />I miss Indonesian tv channels actually, I remember back then there's site that provide a streaming channel for Indonesian channels for free. try here -> <a href="http://imediabiz.tv/" target="_blank">Imediabiz</a><br />Make sure you have decent broadband connections for better viewing, sit back and enjoy Indonesian (*cough*sick*cough*) Sinetron <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=50.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><span class="fullpost"><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-39434976811733773052008-07-30T22:48:00.014+08:002008-07-31T00:12:51.309+08:00Restart All Over Again<div style="text-align: justify;">Sungguh tidak pernah ku sangka, sekali lagi aku harus memulai lagi dari awal. Sebuah hubungan yang sudah ku jalin hampir 4 tahun, hancur begitu saja. Awalnya yang ada dalam pikiran ku hanyalah optimisme yang tak berkesudahan, otak ku penuh dengan keyakinan, kepercayaan, dan hanya ada pikiran positif bahwa dia adalah tujuan, akhir dari perjalanan hidup ego, dan awal dari perjalanan untuk tanggung jawab, dewasa, dan berpikir masa depan. Semua nya hancur dan musnah hanya karena alasan <span style="font-style: italic;">lonely</span>, ditambah dengan seribu satu alasan lain yg dipakai untuk membackup alasan utama.<br /></div><br /><span class="fullpost"><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Berawal dari sebuah dering telepon, yang ku sangka adalah pelepas penat paling segar yang akan aku terima setelah bekerja dari pagi sampai malam, dengan nada datar dimulai dengan pernyataan bosan, merasa sendiri tidak ada yg menemani kemudian muncul <span style="font-style: italic;">statement² </span>"jeda sesaat". Sejenak otak ku seperti mobil yang sedang <span style="font-style: italic;">ngebut</span> dipaksa untuk berhenti dan berbelok, bodohnya aku dengan mudah mengatakan untuk siap menerima apapun keputusan nya. Seorang teman baik ku memberi saran setelah ku tutup telpon, jangan terlalu mudah seperti itu...ingat berapa besar pengorbanan yang telah lo lakukan selama 4 tahun terakhir, apa mau kau buang sia-sia?<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Kuterima saran teman ku sambil bersama-sama menatap ke Adelantado street, berangkat kembali naik ke apartement untuk mencoba menghubungi dia sekali lagi, meralat ucapan ku yang bodoh itu, SMS demi SMS mulai mengalir...berbagai macam alasan mulai bermunculan, walaupun menurut ku semua alasan itu klise dan bisa ku balas dengan mudah, kututup sesi SMS tersebut dengan <span style="font-style: italic;">statement</span> yang menegaskan kembali komitmen yang sudah dibuat bersama, dimana sebuah komitmen hanya bisa berhasil apabila didukung oleh ke dua belah pihak. Hati ku berdebar keras, berharap dia sadar dan bisa mencerna dengan baik apa yang ada di otak ku walau lewat sebuah media yang terbatas sekali.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Keesokan hari, aku tidak tahan lagi dan mulai berpikir macam-macam, beberapa teman memberiku beberapa saran yang sangat baik yang pasti akan ku cam kan untuk hubungan selanjut nya...teman ku berkata "That's the nature of a woman....Awalnya meledak², kemudian selanjutnya pasti akan di menyesal, kemudian malu untuk mengakui dan diakhiri dengan mencari orang lain yang paling tidak mendekati atau lebih baik dari yg lama", teman ku yang lain bilang "Women is like a flowers, need to be watered every day". Sejenak gw terhenyak...betul selama ini aku terlena akan hal² lain karena aku terlalu yakin kalau dia sudah pasti milikku, hingga aku hanya memikirkan langkah selanjut nya saja, sehingga aku jarang menengok lagi kebelakang.<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Mungkin sudah terlambat, tapi bukan aku bila tidak berusaha sampai akhir. Segala upaya ku lakukan agar paling tidak, permasalahan ini dapat diselesaikan secara baik-baik, dengan kondisi sama-sama bertemu muka. Tapi apa daya sepertinya keputusan sudah dikeraskan seperti hati nya. Aku harus terima dengan lapang dada, realita bukanlah sesuatu yang harus di sangkal...tapi harus dihadapi. Pintu sudah tertutup, saatnya untuk melangkah, kembali ke garis awal dan mulai menapak kembali dari awal.<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Aku sudah melakukan kesalahan yang sama DUA kali. Hal yang sama menimpa hubungan ku dengan alur yang sama juga, bahkan penyelesaian yang di pakai juga sama. Apakah aku tidak belajar? semoga tulisan ini bisa membantu diriku agar selalu ingat dan tidak jatuh lagi untuk yang ke tiga kali nya.<br /></div><br />Hati kecil ku ingin tuk kembali...tapi itu bagaikan membelah bulan.<br /><br />Stop Dreaming...Patch Your Heart & Reboot !<br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-77147369777448260382008-05-13T02:55:00.003+08:002008-05-13T04:39:59.726+08:00Psar Drop Predictions<div style="text-align: justify;">Sewaktu saya mempost mengenai <a href="http://gitzjoey.blogspot.com/2008/04/how-to-use-explorer-in-metastock.html">bagaimana mencari duren jatuh alias Psar Cross</a>. Ada beberapa pertanyaan yang menggelitik saya untuk di gali lebih dalam salah satunya adalah, seperti yang sudah banyak kita ketahui kalau Psar adalah salah satu indicator yang paling <span style="font-style: italic;">telat </span>daripada indicator lainnya, Jadi beberapa orang menganggap saat Psar Cross, disaat itulah artinya seseorang sudah kehilangan moment untuk masuk/beli. Ide nya adalah memprediksi emiten mana yang memiliki kemungkinan terbesar akan cross psar nya ke bawah sehingga kita tidak ketinggalan kereta <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=50.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" align="absbottom"/></a><br /></div><br /><span class="fullpost"><br />Perlu ditekankan disini adalah, rumus ini bukan suatu alat untuk menentukan beli/jual, namun hanyalah salah satu alat bantu untuk mempermudah dalam proses pencarian emiten yang sesuai dengan kehendak anda. <span style="font-weight: bold;">USE AT YOUR OWN RISK</span><br /><br />Rumus :<br />A. CLOSE<br />B. SAR(0.02, 0.20)<br />C. Mov(C,60,S)<br />D. CLOSE / SAR(0.02, 0.20)<br />Filter. colB > colA AND colD >= 0.95<br /><br />cara memasukan rumus, liat di <a href="http://gitzjoey.blogspot.com/2008/04/how-to-use-explorer-in-metastock.html">sini</a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Ide dari rumus ini adalah, pertama memfilter semua emiten yang kondisi Psar masih diatas candlestick dengan membandingkan value close dengan Psar value nya, kemudian dari setiap emiten tersebut, dicari selisih antara value close dan Psar yang paling mendekati satu sama lain, kenapa begitu? karena berdasarkan <a href="http://gitzjoey.blogspot.com/2008/02/4p-parabolic-sar.html">teori Psar</a>, pada saat harga closing mendekati nilai psar (bila di chart terlihat dengan titik psar mulai mendekati candlestick) maka kemungkinan untuk terjadi Cross lebih besar.<br /><br />Anda pasti bertanya...darimana dpt angka 0.95 sebagai acuan diatas? Yah...saya akui itu wangsit ajah <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=24.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/24.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>, jujur saya tidak tau apakah, apabila nilai Psar sudah mendekati nilai closing hingga 95% kemudian akan membuat Psar akan jatuh ke bawah <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=06.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/06.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> karena tidak sedikit juga emiten yang bahkan Psar masih 80% dari hari harga closing sudah loncat kebawah keesokan harinya <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=31.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/31.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> , jadi rumus ini hanyalah gambaran buat anda untuk melihat bahwa MetaStock sangat membantu anda dalam menentukan keputusan berdasarkan prinsip² teori TA, dan sangat lah terbuka kemungkinan untuk di utak-atik lagi agar lebih efisien dan tepat.<br /></div><br />Semoga bermanfaat<br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-71913408729836795962008-04-30T01:01:00.004+08:002008-05-01T13:45:41.666+08:00Manila Chapter 2After spending 2 months in Manila and 7 days in Jakarta, here i'm back to Manila...actually i'm already here since 10th april, so I already spent almost 3 weeks. My project manager decide to start the report testing soo I'm soo busy lately, even I have no time for updating my MetaStock since I always back to my apartment late around 10 or 11 PM <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=56.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/56.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> and I just to tired to open my laptop, usually just straight to bed and wake up in the morning to start it all over again...pheww what kind a life is this <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=49.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/49.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>. There's some pictures that I like to share about it, hmm...lets start from my flight.<br /><span class="fullpost"><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080410135121.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080410135121.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>Yeah...this is some pictures I take while in plane, its so bored since I sitting alone, I remember all I do just sleeping during the flight.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080410141305.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080410141305.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>Also here's the food in the plane pic. Almost all of my friends said that the foods in Manila is suck, so almost everyday they only eat at ChowKing or KCF/McD or Jolibee, and they never what to try the other restaurants coz they always said that they never want to spending money just for eating garbage taste like foods. Even one of our bosses almost everyday eating the same menu in the same restaurant for almost a year <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=30.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/30.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>. For me that's dumb, come on what do you expect?? you not living in Indonesia, so dont try to looking foods that taste like Indonesian. Otherwise try to eat like them, try theirs traditional foods or other foods that not available in Indonesia...because this opportunity might not be came to you again <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=32.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/32.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>. Some of them said I'm weird and crazy because i always ordering unusual foods and they even never try before...but for me, you are the weird one. This is a snack with grilled pork flavours, something that you will never ever get it in Indonesia to be sell freely <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=36.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/36.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080419120919.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080419120919.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></div>The next day me with some of my friends go to Manila Bay to catch a sunset in boat, but too bad we miss the 5 PM ferry so we just enjoying sunset in the pier, one of my friends insist to take the 6PM ferry and but the scenes not to good since its dark already. here's some photos that taken from the pier and the ferry.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080413170317.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080413170317.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">On the second week, I got bad perceptions by my project manager, its a one hell of a weekend since likely all my jobs ruined just because I can't remember ONE from hundreds report functions <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=17.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/17.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> . So this week all I do just work...work...and work! I have to restore my reputations and make sure i got no pending jobs so I can go back to Jakarta on 10 May. Gladly right now almost 80% of my jobs are already tested before the deadline <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=03.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/03.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>. Also I get a chance to try watching movie in Manila. Its a movie starring Jackie Chan & Jet Li in the movie called "The Forbidden Kingdom", I like the movie coz its has such a deep meaning, also there's a lot of moral value in the movie just like when Jackie trying to summon rain in the dessert and Jet Li piss him off or when Jason feels he cant bear the task, and Jet Li suggest him to breathe.<br /><br />Oh...I also going to TriNoma Mall in the north avenue, by taking a MRT. The fees was 14 peso and we just hang out there, one thing I notice that almost all mall has like park hall in the middle...that's good for socialize I think. We go to the dinner in the food court, since I'm a big fan of burgers I order a unique burgers...it said from Belgian and its so tiny so u can eat it in one shot<br /></div>and I order 8 burgers hehehe <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=57.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/57.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080420154838.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Manila/PIC080420154838.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-7936148327704591702008-04-16T14:25:00.009+08:002008-04-18T19:50:12.141+08:00How To Use The Explorer In MetaStockKadang, kita kesulitan dalam mencari emiten-emiten yang menurut indicator sedang bagus, contoh mencari emiten yang sedang <span style="font-style: italic;">Golden Cross</span> (misal: SMA5 memotong SMA 20) atau emiten yang PSAR nya baru saja pindah/<span style="font-style: italic;">cross</span> ke bawah. Akan sangat membuang waktu apabila harus membuka satu-persatu ratusan emiten di IDX. Bagi yang menggunakan MetaStock ada tool yang sangat membantu yaitu <span style="font-weight: bold;">The Explorer</span> <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=50.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>.<br /><span class="fullpost">Berikut contoh mencari <span style="font-style: italic;">durian jatuh</span> alias PSAR confirm dibawah candlestick<br /><ol><li>Start MetaStock dan klik icon The Explorer, kemudian pilih <span style="font-weight: bold;">New<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/gc1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/gc1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></span></li><li>Beri nama, kemudian isi kolom <span style="font-weight: bold;">A</span> -> CLOSE<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /></span><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar2.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar2.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></li><li>Pilih kolom <span style="font-weight: bold;">B</span> kemudian isi -> SAR(0.02, 0.20)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar3.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar3.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></li><li>Pilih kolom <span style="font-weight: bold;">C</span> kemudian isi -> MOV(C,60,S)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar3a.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar3a.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></li><li>Pilih kolom <span style="font-weight: bold;">Filter </span>kemudian isi -> CROSS(CLOSE,SAR(0.02,0.20), tekan <span style="font-weight: bold;">OK</span><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar4.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar4.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></li><li>Perhatikan akan ada indicator baru, pilih dan tekan <span style="font-weight: bold;">Explore</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar5.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar5.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></span></li><li>Pilih <span style="font-weight: bold;">Add Securities</span> untuk menambahkan emiten-emiten mana yg ikut di <span style="font-style: italic;">scan</span>, atau<br />pilih semua saja kemudian tekan <span style="font-weight: bold;">Open</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar6.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar6.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></span></li><li>Kemudian akan muncul emiten-emiten yang akan di <span style="font-style: italic;">scan</span>, tekan <span style="font-weight: bold;">OK</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar7.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar7.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></span></li><li>Tunggu hingga proses <span style="font-style: italic;">scanning</span> selesai, kemudian tekan <span style="font-weight: bold;">Reports</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar8.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar8.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></span></li><li>Akan muncul sekumpulan nama-nama emiten. Tekan <span style="font-weight: bold;">Open Charts</span> untuk mem-validasi hasil nya.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar9.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar9.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></li><li>Awas durian jatuh <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=53.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/53.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar10.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Metastock/psar10.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /></li></ol>Ini hanyalah contoh sederhana penggunaan <span style="font-weight: bold;">The Explorer</span>, indicator ini masih butuh banyak penyempurnaan namun cukup untuk sebagai gambaran. Masih banyak lagi indicator-indicator lain dan formula-formula lain yang bisa di <span style="font-style: italic;">explore</span> lebih dalam. Berikut contoh untuk mencari <span style="font-style: italic;">Golden Cross<br /><br /></span>Col A -> Mov(C,5,S)<br />Col B -> Mov(C,20,S)<br />Col C -> Ref(CLOSE, -1)<br />Filter -> ColA = ColB AND ColA > ColC<br /><br />Selamat mencoba <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=57.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/57.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-3616054647801443932008-04-02T21:58:00.008+08:002008-04-18T20:10:40.971+08:00Stock Data Compare v1.1Berangkat dari banyaknya sumber data untuk meng<span style="font-style: italic;">update </span>data stock market IDX, dan sering kurang <span style="font-style: italic;">reliable</span> nya data dari BEJ. Semoga dengan dibuatnya program ini bisa (minimal) membantu para traders untuk membandingkan sumber data yang nantinya akan dipakai ;)<br /><span class="fullpost"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Download site</span><br />IDIC Members : http://finance.groups.yahoo.com/group/IDIClub/files/<br />Rapidshare : http://rapidshare.com/files/104726709/StockDataCompare.exe<br /><br />Sample file : http://rapidshare.com/files/104726817/sample.zip<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Limitations</span><br />Program ini sangat sederhana sehingga ada bbrp limitasi yang harus diperhatikan, sbb<br /><ol><li>Hanya dpt menerima file dalam bentuk comma separated (CSV)</li><li>Tiap file harus memiliki header di line pertama. Header yang diterima adalah <span style="font-weight: bold;">date, ticker, open, high, low, close, volume.</span><br /></li><li>Urutan dari header tersebut TIDAK MUTLAK, artinya boleh saja kolom ticker di kolom awal dan kolom date di posisi ke dua asal nama header tetap sama(<span style="font-style: italic;">case sensitive</span>)</li><li>Program ini selalu mengasumsikan bahwa file 1 sebagai tolak ukur sedangkan file 2 adalah yang akan dibandingkan.</li><li>Program ini dibuat menggunakan Microsoft .NET Framework versi 2. Pastikan sudah terinstall di PC anda, atau download di <a href="http://www.microsoft.com/downloads/details.aspx?FamilyID=0856eacb-4362-4b0d-8edd-aab15c5e04f5&displaylang=en" target="_blank">sini</a><br /></li></ol><span style="font-weight: bold;">How To Use<br /></span>Contoh disini saya menggunakan 2 file dari sumber yang berbeda, juga format yang berbeda. File 1 belum ada header(file1.txt) dan file 2 sudah ada header(file2.txt). Langkah nya adalah sbb :<br /><ol><li>Tambahkan header terlebih dahulu di file1.txt. bisa dengan text editor/notepad, sesuai dengan urutan kolom yang ada.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/file1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/file1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a></li><li>Jalankan StockDataCompare dan pilih File -> Upload Data, tekan tombol no 1 kemudian pilih file1 begitu pula no 2. Kemudian tekan tombol Upload (3).<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/upload.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/upload.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a></li><li>Tunggu sebentar, dan voila <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=57-1.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/57-1.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> Data siap untuk dianalisa.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/viola.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/viola.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a></li><li>Silahkan <span style="font-style: italic;">Explore </span>sendiri untuk fungsi-fungsi tambahan di menu View <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=50.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/50.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a></li><li>Program ini juga dapat di jalankan di command prompt dengan 3 parameter yaitu file1, file2, dan resultfilename <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=27.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/27.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /></li></ol><span style="font-weight: bold;">Next<br /></span>Apabila ada masalah atau masukan dalam menggunakan program ini, feel free to contact me <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=57.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/57.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Error<br /></span>Apabila anda mengalami error spt dibawah ini<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/error1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/StockDataCompare/error1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>Berarti komputer anda belum terinstall .NET Framework. gunakan link dibawah ini untuk mendownload dan install terlebih dahulu agar program dpt berjalan.<br /><br />Download Link : <a href="http://www.microsoft.com/downloads/details.aspx?FamilyID=0856eacb-4362-4b0d-8edd-aab15c5e04f5&displaylang=en">Microsoft .NET Framework 2.0 Runtime</a><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-79352534698454639612008-03-21T18:17:00.013+08:002008-04-18T20:15:17.146+08:00Belajar membuat Vier Magic Boxes [INCO]<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/bniiboxes.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/bniiboxes.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>Beberapa waktu yang lalu, pa Vier memperkenalkan teori baru mengenai Magic Boxes. Pada saat itu posisi saya sudah di Manila, terpaksa saya hanya bisa berusaha untuk belajar memahami nya sendiri, beberapa pertanyaan pernah dikonfirmasi ke pa Vier secara langsung lewat forum dan sudah dijawab. Saat ini saya coba untuk menunjukan beberapa tips membuat Magic Box tersebut, sudah pasti ini sesuai pemahaman yang saya dapat...yang mana masih jauh dari sempurna.<br /><span class="fullpost"><br />Saya masih ingat sekali, awal nya saya mengenal Magic Box ini dari ibu Anaz yang memberikan copy presentasi dari pa Vier, awalnya saya 100% tidak mengerti maksudnya. Namun saya menyakinkan diri untuk membuat, sebab untuk mengetahui apakah kita salah atau benar adalah dengan "Mencoba" nya terlebih dahulu.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Membuat Box Di MetaStock</span><br />Apabila anda menggunakan MetaStock 10.0 EOD di bagian panel terdapat template box yang dapat digunakan untuk membuat Magic Box. Atau gunakan menubar MetaStock dengan mengklik Insert -> Rectangle<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/ms1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/ms1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Menentukan Box Awal</span><br />Adalah hal yang pertama yang menjadi penghalang, apalagi apabila kita tidak punya teori nya. Setelah bertanya-tanya dan mencoba, beberapa hal penting yg dapat saya ambil mengenai membuat box awal :<br /><ol><li>Pastikan candlestick tidak sedang dalam masa konsolidasi, mungkin ini agar kita dpt lebih mudah dalam menentukan tinggi dari box awal.<br /></li><li>Mulai membuat box minimal dari data 3 bulan kebelakang.<br /></li><li>Pada saat membuat box, Lebar box adalah untuk kurun waktu kurang lebih 15 sampai 16 hari.</li></ol>Seperti di gambar perhatikan box 1, saya menggunakan data tgl 16/08/2007 sebagai dasar dari box awal dan panjang box sepertinya terlalu lebar <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=09.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/09.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> (menggunakan 20 hari candlestick), dan tgl 09/07/2007 sebagai pembatas tinggi dari box awal. Voila box awal anda sudah terbuat <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=35.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/35.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />Menentukan Box Selanjutnya<br /></span><span>Selanjutnya dalam menentukan box selanjutnya adalah, dari box 1 cari (kira² saja) bagian tengah dari box tersebut, kemudian copy box 1 dan paste disebelah box 1. Taruh dasar box ke 2 di tengah box 1, untuk menandakan emiten tersebut mengalami uptrend</span><span style="font-weight: bold;">, </span><span>dari 2 box sebenarnya sudah dapat terlihat bagaimana pergerakan emiten tersebut, pengalaman saya untuk menggambar box-box selanjutnya sangatlah mudah apabila box pertama sudah dibuat </span><a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=45.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/45.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a>.<br /><br />Tips untuk mempermudah dalam membuat box selanjutnya, biasanya kita kesulitan untuk membuat box selanjutnya karena pada saat di copy-paste berubah bentuk/panjang-lebar nya. Gunakan cara dengan memilih rectangle terlebih dahulu, kemudian tekan tombol <span style="font-style: italic;">Ctrl</span> dan tahan, perhatikan di cursor mouse akan ada tanda tambah (+) kemudian drag/geser kekanan/kekiri mouse dan kemudian lepas tombol <span style="font-style: italic;">Ctrl</span>. Maka akan terbentuk rectangle baru yang sama persis dengan sebelum nya.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Memberi Tanda Warna<br /></span>Seharusnya ada 3 warna box setelah box pertama, yaitu Biru (Uptrend), Merah (Downtrend), dan Kuning (konsolidasi). Apabila anda perhatikan box 6 dan 8 dapat dikatakan inco memasuki masa konsolidasi (box seharusnya berwarna kuning), setelah masa uptrend (box 3,4,5).<br /><br />Boleh dikatakan, Vier Magic Box ini benar-benar "MAGIC". Sungguh saya juga takjub saat melihat hasil box² yang terbentuk, saya mengalami pada saat candlestick berada di penghujung box 8, saya sudah dpt memastikan sepertinya inco tidak dapat memasukin box 9, dan akan melanjutkan konsolidasi ataupun downtrend, dan ternyata benar masuk ke box 10 dan terus menjauh dari atap box 10. Kemudian saat candlestick berada di box 12 dan bermain di atap box tersebut, saya merasa geram sekali karena sepertinya tidak ada power yang berarti untuk menembus box 12 <a href="http://s73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/?action=view&current=52.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/Smilies/52.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> sampai di penghujung box 12 kembali saya sebenarnya sudah lemas dan sudah memastikan akan terjadi konsolidasi/downtrend untuk saham ini.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/incoboxes.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/incoboxes.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />Masih ada beberapa kegunaan² lain dari Magic Box ini, namun terus terang masih saya mencari dan sebenarnya darimana asal indicator ini (karena di internet tidak ada data-data mengenai indicator yang namanya Magic Box).<br /><br />Semoga Bermanfaat.<br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-24158410317260186722008-03-15T22:46:00.003+08:002008-04-01T16:36:05.354+08:00Now 2 more weekAfter almost 2 week since my last post. Nothing much happen here in Makati City Manila, just work...work...and work. And because of that i got sick :(...yeah after catch a high fever on friday and just sleep all day to regain my health. After one of my friend Albin got sick to, we go the Makati Medical Center (MMC). Here's no doctors on duty in weekend, so we must register as emergency/ICU patient. First before the registrations, the nurse do the preliminary diagnostic by taking body temp and blood pressure then we register ourself as patient. The hospital not as luxury as i think, maybe just like in Rumah Sakit Pondok Indah in Jakarta, the facility seem old but still clean. I got diagnose sore throat, seem i got infected by others...nah but that's allright. The doctors fee was 1000 peso, and i got prescriptions an antibiotics medicine for 1000 peso to. Total almost 2500 peso. Yeah that's not cheap. I'm better right now, but sure it was hell of an experience :)GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-26750230881983210432008-02-28T23:34:00.006+08:002008-02-29T00:38:44.574+08:00Close To 3rd Week - The Heat Is RisingIt's almost the 3rd week I'm in Makati City, and the project is entering the most critical status. Our client already sniffed out that our product is not ready yet, and the bugs keep coming and coming into our bug trackers. There's no more fun and hang out in weekend coz the application teams must meet the (very crazy) deadline. No more Mr. Nice Guys even to the others internal teams and the heat keep rising and rising, after our CEO meet with our clients in Boards of Meeting and resulted that we must archive with no delay or this project will be TERMINATED.<br />Wow...its not a good record in my CV, but i have no choice. Actually not in my division thats on fire, coz i'm just handling only for the reporting, and the problem was in the applications it self. But still with the delay in the applications resulting in delay for report test, but the deadline keep on time. So when my report applications tested there's maybe not much time to me to fix the bugs...ow no.<br />Btw I'm still trying to keep it up with my friends to seek more technical analysis knowledge in stock markets, but since i'm working almost 12 hours everday (even on saturday) thats make me to postpone it :(. So many idea that i want to share in this blog but so litte time to write it...even for blogging myself :-(.<br /><br />HELL MARCH<br />yeah...HELL MARCH....maybe the best phrase to describe my self right now. Just like one of the sound track in C&C Red Alert 2 by Frank Klepacki...<br />No more chatting in trading day, no more browsing for news. Just work...work...and work !!! passing this week with glory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SQVvfFTcEk"><span style="font-size:180%;"><i><b>"Die Waffen – legt an!"</b></i></span></a><span style=""><span class="a"><br /></span></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-67566717528063216032008-02-24T04:50:00.003+08:002008-02-24T05:24:53.729+08:004P - Parabolic SARParabolic SAR adalah salah satu indicator dalam 4P yang disarankan oleh <a href="http://vierjamal.blogspot.com/">Pak Vier</a>. SAR disini adalah singkatan dari "Stop And Reversal", indicator ini dapat dikatakan merupakan indicator yang paling "terlambat" dalam memberikan signal, namun keterlambatan tersebut memberikan signal yang kuat apakah saham tersebut akan naik ataupun turun. Formula/rumusan untuk menciptakan Parabolic SAR dapat dikatakan komplek namun sangat mudah untuk menginterpretasikan indicator ini. Pada dasarnya indicator Parabolic SAR terdiri dari sekumpulan titik-titik yang disebut dengan "Trailing Stop". Pada saat trailing stop diatas harga suatu emiten dapat dikatakan emiten tersebut sedang mengalami penurunan, dan sebaliknya apabila trailing stop berada dibawah harga suatu emiten berarti emiten tersebut sedang mengalami kenaikan. Semakin menyempitnya jarak antara harga dengan trailing stop mengindikasikan kemungkinan besar perpindahan indicator baik dari atas ke bawah maupun dari bawah ke atas.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/psar.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px;" src="http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i238/gitzjoey/TA/psar.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />Dari gambar diatas dapat diliat harga mengalami kenaikan pada saat titik trailing stop berada dibawah harga, dan mulai berbalik arah pada saat titik mulai menyempit mendekati harga.GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-61230740182545031312008-02-18T00:43:00.008+08:002008-04-18T20:30:16.270+08:00A Week Down, 7 More To Go<div class="Section1"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" >Fiuh….a week down, but there’s 7 more to go. Nothing much I can explore <st1:country-region st="on">Philippines</st1:country-region> since the I live in <st1:place st="on"><st1:city st="on">Makati</st1:city></st1:place> city which is a business district, so the nearest leisure place was the bay. Yesterday we dine in a restaurant called Aristocrat, maybe just like “Ayam Goreng Ibu Suharti” if it’s in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Indonesia</st1:place></st1:country-region>, their specialties was “Chicken BBQ” with a Java Sauce. Actually just like Indonesian’s Ayam Bakar with Nasi Kuning but they charged around 187 Peso, and the Java Sauce was actually a ketchup, the chicken was so big not like in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Indonesia</st1:place></st1:country-region> average chicken.<o:p></o:p></span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /><br /></span><span class="fullpost"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" >In the last week, most of the time was spend in the office, I woke up every day 8 am (Philippines Time) and then have a peanut butter sandwich or blubbery sandwich 2 slices and then start to go to shower. The office was maybe 4 or 5 block from the apartment, we go the the office on foot. Every lunch time I always trying a different kind of meals that I cant find in <st1:place st="on"><st1:country-region st="on">Indonesia</st1:country-region></st1:place>, almost all their meals include pork and its not often I can find a vegetables, meat..meat…and meat…Thanks to Mr Ato for providing a kangkong</span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" > every night. Almost every meals in Phlippines was either to salty or to sweet, but you’ll never find a meals that to hot</span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" >. Most of the time for dinner we cook…actually Mr Ato that always cook</span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" > since very hard to find vegetables meal so Mr Ato always cook a kangkong. We always go to our apartment around 8 pm or 9 pm, yeah the projects it’s in a critical status, we already behind the schedules and our PM maybe will move all our programmers from Jakarta to Philippines this week to catch up on the schedule.</span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" ><br /><br />Last Friday (15/02/2008) there is a demonstrations in front of our office, I think its about the president of <st1:place st="on"><st1:country-region st="on">Philippines</st1:country-region></st1:place> that too greedy</span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" >. They set up a stage and start the demonstrations with a pray, and then starting to sending some of protester to speech about their testimonial about their president. But most of them using tagalong so I cant understand much. When they set the demonstrations I notice that they covering the buses and plant around them with the net and even the spectator the gather behind the buses and plants. Wow how in order they when demonstratic, in my view it’s just like a concert </span></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" ><o:p></o:p></span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /><br /></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" >Check here for the demonst</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;">rations its all about <a title="blocked::http://www.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUSMAN28625720080215?feedType=RSS&feedName=topNews" href="http://www.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUSMAN28625720080215?feedType=RSS&feedName=topNews">here</a><o:p></o:p><o:p></o:p><br /></span><p class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style=";font-family:Arial;" >To bad I still cant upload the pictures, I’ll upload it after I find a decent connections or an internet caffee around here. That’s all for now….i’ll try to update it again next week. <o:p></o:p></span></span></p></div><br /></span>GitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886360589082431004.post-83432581984864778012008-02-09T08:12:00.000+08:002008-02-11T21:03:22.208+08:00Good Bye Jakarta, Mabuhay ManilaOn the 9th feb 08, i'm leaving Indonesia and travel to manila for company project in the BPI (Bank of Philipine Islands). This is the first time i'm heading to manila, I'm already packed since friday (8 feb) to make sure i bring all the needed stuff. Thanks to my girl for the baggage so I can manage only bring 1 baggage rather than 2. After i kiss my girl and jump off to my cab. Like usual no bad/unhappy feeling i felt.<br />In the airport, after meeting with my friend cecilia. we start to check in. 1st we check in out baggage and pay the fiscal fee (fiskal), after that we start to the counter for fiscal check and imigrations, right after we pass the imigrations check i heard that our flight already boarding, so we hurry to go to the waiting room .<br />We flight in the right time at 13:35. our first lunch was opor ayam :) to bad i can manage to take a picture on our lunch, after one hour and a half we arrived in Changi airport, its just a short transit, no more than 1 hours so we cant go around the airport. After we boarding heading to Manila, yeah we got the 2nd meal not long before the 1st meal. The 2nd meal was spaghetti with cheese :)<br />We arrive at Ninoy Aquino Airport at 7:00 PM, and straight to the immigrations after passing the bird flu control and i see Indonesian people :p ..... that was Ferry and Andy to help me out to the apartment. After a little incident we almost took the wrong taxi route (fiuh....) and Pinoy taxi drivers just like a F1 racing driver :D<br /><br />Day 1 after unload my baggage...me and Andi & Mr Chairil walking around the block. My 1st impression about Philipines was...Clean, Tidy, and Clear. We walking around the city park...wow i feel the clean air just like in the mountains, also the pedestrians was tidy and comfortable, even when we walk after past midnight. I hope Jakarta can be like this...at least...<br />Ahh to bad my pda cant online automatically :( i think its need at least 2 day to make my international roaming active.<br /><br />Day 2 its sunday...we going to SM Mall of Asia...its a very large mall, i think like Kelapa Gading Mall if is it in Indonesia. Hmm not too interesting i think...just like ordinary mall with expensive stuff (than in Indonesia). Except it has Bay View so we can see the open sea directly. The 1st dinner in Mall of Asia was PorkChop BBQ, its a pork bbq with salt ketchup...i will post the pic after im back in Indonesia (hahaha maybe 2 month later) coz the internet connections here soo bad. After buying a plug for my laptop charger (coz the plug is different here) and buy some ice-cream...we back to our apartment, like before...we use F1 Taxi Cab :DGitzJoeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10715381698048819036noreply@blogger.com0